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How to Find Yourself After Divorce: 5 StepsDivorce

October 8, 2026

How to Find Yourself After Divorce: 5 Steps

The end of a marriage can leave you asking: Who am I now? You may have spent a long time being somebody's wife, co-parent, or keeping the household moving through much tension. Then the structure disappears, and even freedom can feel disorienting.

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They Cheated on Their Spouse.  Would YOU Still Date Them? (Dating After 50)Trust

September 24, 2026

They Cheated on Their Spouse. Would YOU Still Date Them? (Dating After 50)

You're dating someone you really like. Then you find out they cheated in a previous relationship.

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Lasting Love After 50: The Complete Guide to Long-Term RelationshipsHealthy Relationships

September 24, 2026

Lasting Love After 50: The Complete Guide to Long-Term Relationships

Finding love is one skill. Keeping it alive is another, and I learned that the hard way. Here is how to build love that lasts after 50.

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How to Communicate in a Relationship: Laurie Gerber's Complete GuideCommunication

September 10, 2026

How to Communicate in a Relationship: Laurie Gerber's Complete Guide

What makes a relationship work isn't chemistry or love. It's whether two people can tell each other the truth. Here's my complete guide.

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3 Signs a Recently Divorced Man Is Ready to DateDivorce

September 3, 2026

3 Signs a Recently Divorced Man Is Ready to Date

Dating a divorced man? His ex and kids may come along. These 3 green flags show if he's healed and ready for a real relationship.

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Sex and Intimacy After 50: The Complete GuideSex

August 27, 2026

Sex and Intimacy After 50: The Complete Guide

Desire doesn't die after 50. It changes. This candid guide covers menopause, libido, and the talks that make intimacy better.

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5 Reasons Men Are Drawn to Older WomenAge Gaps

August 20, 2026

5 Reasons Men Are Drawn to Older Women

I have coached daters for 20 years, and younger men keep seeking women over 50. You have the upper hand more than you think. Here are 5 reasons.

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First Dates After 50: The Complete Guide to Early DatingFirst Dates

August 14, 2026

First Dates After 50: The Complete Guide to Early Dating

If you're dating again after 50, first dates feel enormous. I want to give you every advantage I can. You're not doing this for practice.

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5 Telltale Signs of Relationship IncompatibilityCompatibility

August 7, 2026

5 Telltale Signs of Relationship Incompatibility

Something feels off a few weeks in, but you can't name it. Here is how to tell a normal rough patch from real signs of incompatibility.

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When to Have Sex While Dating: 6 Questions to AskSex

July 30, 2026

When to Have Sex While Dating: 6 Questions to Ask

The third-date rule is not a readiness plan. Here are 6 questions to ask before sex so you can know when you are truly ready.

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Are There Securely Attached People on Dating Apps? (And How Do You Find Them?)Dating Apps

July 23, 2026

Are There Securely Attached People on Dating Apps? (And How Do You Find Them?)

Are there emotionally healthy people on dating apps? Fair question. Here is how you can spot securely attached partners and find them.

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Living Apart Together: Is It the Right Choice for You?Healthy Relationships

July 16, 2026

Living Apart Together: Is It the Right Choice for You?

Eligible people scarce where you live? I meet happy couples who started long-distance or chose living apart together. Hope is not lost.

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6 Red Flags in Dating Over 50 You Keep IgnoringRed Flags

July 9, 2026

6 Red Flags in Dating Over 50 You Keep Ignoring

You see the red flags, then talk yourself out of them. I have coached women for 20 years. Here are 6 red flags and the pattern to stop.

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Dating After 50: The 7 MOST Common Things People Lie About (And Why They Do It)Red Flags

July 7, 2026

Dating After 50: The 7 MOST Common Things People Lie About (And Why They Do It)

If you've been dating after 50 for any amount of time, you already know that people aren't always honest.

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Changed these 3 things in Dating Profile and Was Shocked by The Results!Dating Profiles

July 2, 2026

Changed these 3 things in Dating Profile and Was Shocked by The Results!

I've seen one client change 3 things and get more quality conversations in a week. The problem isn't you, it's the packaging.

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How to Stop Repeating Old Relationship PatternsAttachment Styles

June 25, 2026

How to Stop Repeating Old Relationship Patterns

A woman leaves an unhappy marriage, promises things will be different, then the same fights and slow disappointment return. That is not bad luck.

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The Complete Guide to Apps, Profiles, and Showing Up Like YourselfOnline Dating

June 18, 2026

The Complete Guide to Apps, Profiles, and Showing Up Like Yourself

Let me be honest: many women treat online dating like a chore, then feel demoralized. I want to help you show up as yourself.

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The Complete Guide to Finding Love Again After 50Getting Started

June 11, 2026

The Complete Guide to Finding Love Again After 50

You're over 50 and dating feels exhausting. I've helped hundreds of women at the edge of the dating pool. Here's your complete guide.

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3rd Date Mistakes That Cost You MonthsFirst Dates

June 5, 2026

3rd Date Mistakes That Cost You Months

"Three dates in, you like him... so why are you avoiding the exact conversations that would tell you if he's actually right for you?" In today's Love at Any Age episode, I'm breaking down the 3 biggest third-date mistakes I see smart people make over and over, plus the exact…

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Why Is a Man Over 50 Still Single?Dating Mindset

June 4, 2026

Why Is a Man Over 50 Still Single?

My family's tale of Sylvia, who questioned every hat and every salesperson, says a lot about why some men stay single. Let's explore the mindset.

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7 Things People Lie About in Dating Over 50 (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)Trust

May 28, 2026

7 Things People Lie About in Dating Over 50 (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)

People lie in small, strategic, sometimes unconscious ways. I've seen it derail good matches on profiles, first dates, and beyond. The 7 lies.

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Dating Over 50: How to Actually Feel Good About It AgainDating Mindset

May 21, 2026

Dating Over 50: How to Actually Feel Good About It Again

Dating after 50 can feel like a strange new world, not a cute adventure. Here's how to feel good about it again, step by step.

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Attracting The Wrong Men After 50? The Real ReasonAttraction

May 14, 2026

Attracting The Wrong Men After 50? The Real Reason

If you keep attracting the same wrong man, hear this: you are not broken. You are running an unconscious pattern, and patterns can change.

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8 Things High-Caliber Mature Men Actually WantCompatibility

May 7, 2026

8 Things High-Caliber Mature Men Actually Want

I coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.

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Dating After Divorce: What Really Works Over 50Divorce

April 30, 2026

Dating After Divorce: What Really Works Over 50

Worried your window for love closed after divorce? I talked with Lauren Handel Zander, who divorced at 52 and found her person. Here's her story.

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Should I Have Sex on the 3rd date?Sex

April 23, 2026

Should I Have Sex on the 3rd date?

I'm not judging you if you followed the third-date rule. Here's why it can backfire, and what to weigh before sleeping with someone new.

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Where Are the Good Men?Dating Challenges

April 16, 2026

Where Are the Good Men?

I hear it every week: "Where are the good men?" If you think they're all taken or missing, let's talk about what's really happening.

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Sex Over 50: What Nobody Tells You About DesireSex

April 9, 2026

Sex Over 50: What Nobody Tells You About Desire

I'm saying what most women over 50 think but don't say: can sex still be great? I brought in an expert who changed how I see desire.

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How (Not) To Use AI For Your Dating ProfilesDating Profiles

April 2, 2026

How (Not) To Use AI For Your Dating Profiles

A client's dating profile was clearly written by ChatGPT, and I had a small breakdown. Here's why AI can't replace the human part of dating.

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Are You Sending Mixed Signals? 7 Things Women Say They Want and What They Really MeanEmotional Availability

March 26, 2026

Are You Sending Mixed Signals? 7 Things Women Say They Want and What They Really Mean

Men say women send signals instead of asking directly. Often that is because you do not yet know what you actually want.

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8 Dating Patterns That Keep Smart Women Stuck in LoveAttachment Styles

March 20, 2026

8 Dating Patterns That Keep Smart Women Stuck in Love

“I missed my chance.” “I have to start all over now.” Maybe you don't say it out loud, but you think it. In this episode of Love at Any Age, I'm going to argue for hope.

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Dating Over 50: Are Your Girlfriends Helping or Hurting?Dating Mindset

March 19, 2026

Dating Over 50: Are Your Girlfriends Helping or Hurting?

Dating over 50 is brave. Tender. Hopeful. And yet—sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.

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Dating over 50: 7 Compatibility Factors That Predict SuccessCompatibility

March 13, 2026

Dating over 50: 7 Compatibility Factors That Predict Success

Chemistry is intoxicating. It feels like a sign. But it might be the thing that's costing you the most time. "Am I falling for the right person, or am I just finally feeling wanted again?"

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Handling Rejection After 50 Without Losing HopeHealing

March 12, 2026

Handling Rejection After 50 Without Losing Hope

Rejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.

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5 Dating Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make — And How to Stop Them FastDating Challenges

March 5, 2026

5 Dating Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make — And How to Stop Them Fast

If you are dating over 50, here is the good news. Dating can actually get better with age. Not easier. But better.

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The "One" Didn’t Get Away: Letting Go and Moving ForwardBreakups

February 26, 2026

The "One" Didn’t Get Away: Letting Go and Moving Forward

There is no single "the one" who got away. I explain why letting go of that story is what finally lets you move forward in love.

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How to Tell if a Man is Ready for Long-Term CommitmentCommitment

February 19, 2026

How to Tell if a Man is Ready for Long-Term Commitment

Online dating can feel like a waste of time. I've learned only some men are truly ready for commitment, and their behavior shows it.

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4 Types of Questions to ask on the First DateFirst Dates

February 12, 2026

4 Types of Questions to ask on the First Date

Dating after 50? Chemistry isn't the only thing that matters. These 4 first-date questions help you spot a partner who fits your real life.

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EP 30: Momentum vs. Trust, A Woman’s Perspective vs A Man’s Street Lessons (Part 1 of 2)Dating Challenges

February 12, 2026

EP 30: Momentum vs. Trust, A Woman’s Perspective vs A Man’s Street Lessons (Part 1 of 2)

Laurie is a guest on the Midlife Dating Podcast with Paul Nelson, comparing a woman’s perspective with a man’s street lessons on momentum and trust in dating (Part 1 of 2).

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Liability Compatibility: Why the Awkward Conversations Matter MostCompatibility

February 5, 2026

Liability Compatibility: Why the Awkward Conversations Matter Most

If you're dating after 50, I want to talk about what doesn't work: you. Liability compatibility means having the awkward conversations.

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The 3-Date Strategy: Key Signs He’s the Right Guy After 50First Dates

January 29, 2026

The 3-Date Strategy: Key Signs He’s the Right Guy After 50

You do not need weeks of texting to know if he is right. I want you to have clarity by the third date. Here is my 3-date strategy.

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How to Know What You Want in Love After 50Personal Growth

January 23, 2026

How to Know What You Want in Love After 50

After 50, dating isn't hard because you don't want love. It's hard because you know what doesn't work and doubt your own choices.

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The Secret Reason You're Not Ready for Love: How to Detox from Your Past RelationshipsHealing

January 15, 2026

The Secret Reason You're Not Ready for Love: How to Detox from Your Past Relationships

If dating feels like the same movie on repeat, it's not because you're bad at it. The real reason is quieter and much more solvable.

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Finding and Building a Healthy Relationship in Midlife: Laurie GerberHealthy Relationships

January 13, 2026

Finding and Building a Healthy Relationship in Midlife: Laurie Gerber

In today’s episode, Nada talks with Laurie about dating and relationships. Laurie talks about her “near divorce experience” that set her on the path to coaching.

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Is AI Helping—or Hurting—Your Dating Life?Dating Apps

January 9, 2026

Is AI Helping—or Hurting—Your Dating Life?

Today’s episode is the season finale of Love at Any Age — and I’m doing something new. I had a guest on the podcast: dating coach Evan Marc Katz. And I’ll be honest… I came into this conversation feeling more than a little fired up.

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The One Pattern That Subconsciously Wrecks Midlife Dating (and How to Stop It) 💥Attachment Styles

January 8, 2026

The One Pattern That Subconsciously Wrecks Midlife Dating (and How to Stop It) 💥

If you keep dating the same men, it's not because you're bad at dating. Patterns run the show until you name them. Here's how to stop.

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Self-Love After 50: 6 Hidden Obstacles That Block LoveConfidence

January 2, 2026

Self-Love After 50: 6 Hidden Obstacles That Block Love

Thinking about dating again? I say there's no expiration date on love. Here are 6 hidden obstacles blocking you. You are not too late.

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How Women Can Get Ready for Dating Sunday and Make Their Love Resolution Come TrueGetting Started

December 26, 2025

How Women Can Get Ready for Dating Sunday and Make Their Love Resolution Come True

If finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?

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Ready to date again after 50? Laurie Gerber shares 10 practical, soulful steps to prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love—starting now.Getting Started

December 18, 2025

Ready to date again after 50? Laurie Gerber shares 10 practical, soulful steps to prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love—starting now.

Dating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.

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Dating Over 50: 8 Unrealistic Expectations That Keep You Single — And How to Shift ThemDating Mindset

December 11, 2025

Dating Over 50: 8 Unrealistic Expectations That Keep You Single — And How to Shift Them

If you’re dating over 50 and wondering why it feels harder than ever to find your person, you’re not imagining it. The dating landscape has changed — and so have we. You’ve lived, loved, raised kids, maybe divorced, maybe lost a partner. You’ve learned a lot about yourself. But…

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We're Finding Love On My New Podcast: Love At Any AgeLove

December 4, 2025

We're Finding Love On My New Podcast: Love At Any Age

I promised myself I'd start a podcast in 2025, then grief and a move rearranged everything. Love At Any Age is what came next.

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Giving Thanks for Past Loves: How Gratitude Heals the HeartHealing

November 27, 2025

Giving Thanks for Past Loves: How Gratitude Heals the Heart

In this season of gratitude, I share an unpopular opinion: every love choice you've made was in your best interest. Gratitude can heal.

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💬Here’s How to Talk About the Hard Stuff (without Scaring Him Off)Communication

November 21, 2025

💬Here’s How to Talk About the Hard Stuff (without Scaring Him Off)

Dating over 50 isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about 3H (head, heart, and hoo-ha) compatibility. And sometimes that means having the awkward conversations we’d all rather skip. In this week’s episode of my podcast, Love at Any Age, I teach you how to talk about the things that…

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Body Image and Dating Over 50: What’s Really Holding You BackConfidence

November 20, 2025

Body Image and Dating Over 50: What’s Really Holding You Back

A reader wrote me her weight and years of celibacy were stopping her. I tackle body image and dating with honesty and compassion.

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How to Answer eHarmony Prompts (Especially for Women Dating Over 50)Dating Profiles

November 14, 2025

How to Answer eHarmony Prompts (Especially for Women Dating Over 50)

eHarmony's prompts can help you attract better matches, but only if you answer them well. Here's how to write yours with real intention.

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The Secret to Choosing the Right Partner (for Real This Time)Compatibility

November 7, 2025

The Secret to Choosing the Right Partner (for Real This Time)

If you’ve ever said, “I don’t even know what I want anymore” or “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” — this one’s for you.

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4 Myths About the Dating Site Algorithm That Need BustingDating Apps

November 6, 2025

4 Myths About the Dating Site Algorithm That Need Busting

Do the apps secretly rate your attractiveness? Are you being punished for swiping too much? And is there really a way to “beat the system”?

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How to Detox from Your Past Relationships and Date Again with ConfidenceHealing

October 31, 2025

How to Detox from Your Past Relationships and Date Again with Confidence

If you’ve ever sworn you were done with your ex… but still find yourself checking his social media or comparing every new guy to him — this one’s for you.

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Post-Divorce Casual Dating: To Fling or Not to Fling?Divorce

October 30, 2025

Post-Divorce Casual Dating: To Fling or Not to Fling?

I wish my kids had taken a gap year before college. Now I think divorced daters need one too, a fling year before anything gets serious.

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4 Bad Reasons 50+ Women Quit Dating (and 1 Good One)Dating Mindset

October 23, 2025

4 Bad Reasons 50+ Women Quit Dating (and 1 Good One)

Women quit dating for four understandable reasons, but they are the wrong ones. Here is the one good reason to pause, too.

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Get Better at Dating With "Main Character" EnergyDating Mindset

October 16, 2025

Get Better at Dating With "Main Character" Energy

If you’re a woman over 50 and haven’t done at least 7 of the 10 things I’ve listed below, you may be missing out on your “Main Character Era.”

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Unpopular Opinion: Men Over 50 Deserve a 2nd ChanceDating Mindset

October 9, 2025

Unpopular Opinion: Men Over 50 Deserve a 2nd Chance

I don't mean getting back with your ex, or staying with abuse. I mean giving a new man grace in early dating, before chemistry starts.

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I Can’t Fix Your Dating Profile Without These 2 ThingsDating Profiles

October 2, 2025

I Can’t Fix Your Dating Profile Without These 2 Things

Women send me profiles to judge, but I can't fix yours without two things. Your profile is an ad, and it can't be false advertising.

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Thinking About Dating Older Men: But Don’t Want to Be A Nurse Or A Purse?Dating Challenges

September 25, 2025

Thinking About Dating Older Men: But Don’t Want to Be A Nurse Or A Purse?

Dating men with more years behind them? Stop worrying you'll become a nurse or purse. I'll show you a better alternative.

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What to Expect When Dating a Man Over 50Dating Challenges

September 18, 2025

What to Expect When Dating a Man Over 50

If you’re a woman in later years looking for a mature man around your own age, there are some things you should expect. This list isn't meant to scare you—it’s to help you experience the dating scene with greater ease. First off, they might help you feel less crazy, because if…

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5 Most Awkward Dating Situations and How to DealDating Challenges

September 11, 2025

5 Most Awkward Dating Situations and How to Deal

Cringe stories shouldn't keep you from dating. With a little prep, you can handle 5 awkward situations and feel more confident.

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So you have an STD, To Date or Not To Date?Sex

September 4, 2025

So you have an STD, To Date or Not To Date?

I used to run truth-telling workshops. If you have an STD, I want you to consider dating honestly, without shame, and free yourself.

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Why Your First Date Should Be a Video ChatFirst Dates

August 28, 2025

Why Your First Date Should Be a Video Chat

Met online? Skip the noisy bar. I say make your first date a video chat, before you spend real time and energy meeting in person.

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The Do's and Don'ts of Dating Site PromptsDating Profiles

August 21, 2025

The Do's and Don'ts of Dating Site Prompts

Staring at that dating app prompt? As a love coach, I'll help you answer it with the right amount of info, green flags, and mystery.

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Dating Over 50: Do Older Men Really ONLY Want Younger Women? What's Real and What's Not!Dating Challenges

August 21, 2025

Dating Over 50: Do Older Men Really ONLY Want Younger Women? What's Real and What's Not!

“Older men only want younger women.” 🙄 We’ve all heard it—but is it really the truth, or just a prevalent belief that holds people back from finding love? In this candid conversation, Dating Coach & Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber takes a closer and no-holds-barred look at…

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How Honest Should You Be on a First Date?Trust

August 15, 2025

How Honest Should You Be on a First Date?

On our first date, he said we should brush our teeth before we kissed. I was mortified, but it led to a great kiss and 27 years of marriage.

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The Real Reason So Many Women Fake Orgasms—And What To Do About ItIntimacy

August 14, 2025

The Real Reason So Many Women Fake Orgasms—And What To Do About It

Why do so many women fake orgasms? The reasons go beyond the physical, and there is a path to more pleasure and more honesty.

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3 Do’s and Don’ts of Online Dating BanterCommunication

August 7, 2025

3 Do’s and Don’ts of Online Dating Banter

Good banter keeps the spark alive online. Use my do's and don'ts to move from messages to a video chat and then a real date.

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The Problem with "Love Languages" in Early DatingCompatibility

August 7, 2025

The Problem with "Love Languages" in Early Dating

Trying to show love but your partner feels the opposite? In early dating, love languages can mismatch like rupees and rubles.

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Are You Undateable? 6 Things You May Not RealizeConfidence

July 31, 2025

Are You Undateable? 6 Things You May Not Realize

Ever Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.

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How Do I Get a Man to Talk to me? 5 Great Ways to Make a Conversation FlowCommunication

July 31, 2025

How Do I Get a Man to Talk to me? 5 Great Ways to Make a Conversation Flow

Feel like you're pulling teeth to get a man talking? The secret isn't more questions. It's real listening, and it makes you more attractive.

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30 Dating Questions to Ask To Get to Know Someone BetterCommunication

July 24, 2025

30 Dating Questions to Ask To Get to Know Someone Better

As a relationship expert, my mission is to help you stop wasting time on dead-end dates and find someone who’s a good match for you for long-term love. By "good match," I mean you are "in sync" on all 3H's: your head, your heart, and your hoo-ha.

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Navigating Dating with Ease: 4 Tips for Soothing AnxietyDating Mindset

July 24, 2025

Navigating Dating with Ease: 4 Tips for Soothing Anxiety

If dating feels like a tightrope over lava, you're not broken. These 4 tips helped my clients calm dating anxiety and enjoy the process again.

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How Women Over 50 Can Support a Partner with Erectile DysfunctionIntimacy

July 17, 2025

How Women Over 50 Can Support a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction

Sex can be a big dating concern. I give you the lowdown on erectile dysfunction so you can support a partner and protect intimacy.

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The New "Honesty Is The Best Policy" In DatingTrust

July 17, 2025

The New "Honesty Is The Best Policy" In Dating

Is Honesty the Best Policy in Dating? Now that you are dating over 50, you can finally be honest!

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Top Advice for Dating App Fatigue When Every Swipe is a Soul-SuckDating Apps

July 10, 2025

Top Advice for Dating App Fatigue When Every Swipe is a Soul-Suck

Dating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.

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What Makes 2 People TRULY Compatible: It's Not What You ThinkCompatibility

July 10, 2025

What Makes 2 People TRULY Compatible: It's Not What You Think

What makes two people truly compatible? It’s not what you think…

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The Worst Dating Profile Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make—And How to Fix ThemDating Profiles

July 3, 2025

The Worst Dating Profile Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make—And How to Fix Them

As a dating coach, I see women over 50 sabotaging their profiles with group photos, cliches, and negativity. Here is how to fix it.

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Should I Give A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To A Second Chance?Attraction

July 3, 2025

Should I Give A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To A Second Chance?

Not attracted at first but lonely? Before giving him a second chance, let's look at why your type hasn't worked and what to change.

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Dating After Divorce: How to Do It the Right WayDivorce

June 26, 2025

Dating After Divorce: How to Do It the Right Way

Dating after divorce can feel like a strange new world. The rules are unclear, but you can find healthy love. Here is how to do it right.

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5 Tips to Avoid Being Ghosted Forever 🚫👻Emotional Availability

June 26, 2025

5 Tips to Avoid Being Ghosted Forever 🚫👻

Being ghosted hurts. I explain what ghosting is and share 5 tips to avoid it, so you can date with less confusion and more confidence.

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What Do Older Women Think Men Want—and Are They Right?Dating Mindset

June 19, 2025

What Do Older Women Think Men Want—and Are They Right?

What do men actually want? We explore whether mature women really know, or if we're repeating assumptions and insecurities.

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Why Do Men Ghost: Some Important CoachingEmotional Availability

June 19, 2025

Why Do Men Ghost: Some Important Coaching

Ghosted and reeling? Here is the coaching: stop falling for people whose words don't match their actions, and choose better.

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Dating Over 50: Profile Mistakes That Make You Undateable! (The Harsh Truth)Dating Profiles

June 13, 2025

Dating Over 50: Profile Mistakes That Make You Undateable! (The Harsh Truth)

Think your dating profile is helping you find love after 50? Think again. 🙄Dating Coach & Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber delivers a brutally honest breakdown of the biggest dating profile mistakes that are turning people off — and keeping you single. From outdated photos and…

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Top 5 Reasons To Believe In Love and Romance AgainDating Mindset

June 12, 2025

Top 5 Reasons To Believe In Love and Romance Again

Finding love again starts with belief. I share five reasons to believe romance is possible, even after heartbreak or a long break.

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The Best Way to Meet Men in Real Life (Even If You’re Nervous)Getting Started

June 12, 2025

The Best Way to Meet Men in Real Life (Even If You’re Nervous)

Tired of apps? I've helped many women meet good men in real life. I can teach you how to do it, even if you're really nervous.

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Should I Hire a Professional Matchmaker?Dating Challenges

June 5, 2025

Should I Hire a Professional Matchmaker?

Curious what a professional matchmaker really does? I sat down with Jill Dunn to talk dating app burnout and long-term success.

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The Top 5 Reasons Women Give Up on LoveDating Mindset

June 5, 2025

The Top 5 Reasons Women Give Up on Love

Quick question: What’s the top reason you’ve given up on finding love after 50?

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How to Protect Yourself From a NarcissistRed Flags

May 29, 2025

How to Protect Yourself From a Narcissist

As a relationship coach, every so often I have to encourage someone to leave their relationship. But how do we know when it’s time to cut losses?

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10 Key Questions to Ask on the First 3 Dates for Mature DatersFirst Dates

May 22, 2025

10 Key Questions to Ask on the First 3 Dates for Mature Daters

The right questions early on matter more than chemistry. I'll share my Spark Questions to help you date with clarity and have more fun.

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Love at First Site: How to Choose the Best Dating Site Without Losing Your MindOnline Dating

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As a dating coach, I help women cut through the chaos of choosing a dating site or app when there are simply too many choices.

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May 17, 2025

Can Sex Get Better After Menopause?

If you're post-menopausal and dating, sex can get better. Let's talk about what changes and what pleasure can look like now.

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May 8, 2025

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May 8, 2025

How Women Can Avoid the Top Five Dating Mistakes

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May 1, 2025

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May 1, 2025

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April 26, 2025

Biggest Mistakes That Ruin a Second Date

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April 25, 2025

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Before a first date, chat enough to check your 3H criteria. Then pick a quiet coffee, wine, or walk and talk to see if chemistry is there.

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April 17, 2025

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April 17, 2025

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April 10, 2025

Am I Good Enough to be Loved for What I Am?

So many midlife women believe they're not enough to deserve love. The truth? You are worthy right now. The work is believing it enough to act.

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April 10, 2025

Why Do Men Talk So Much On First Dates?

Some men are narcissists. Some men are full of themselves. Most men are neither.

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April 3, 2025

Worst Date Ideas

Bad dates are the worst. Here are my tips from 20 years of coaching for your first three dates, so you can skip the crappy ones.

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April 3, 2025

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I hear women overwhelmed by online dating all the time. Canned responses can make your messages charming, clear, and much easier.

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March 27, 2025

First Date Signs He Likes You

So many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…

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March 27, 2025

How to Make Yourself More Attractive: 4 Practical Strategies

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March 20, 2025

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March 13, 2025

You’re Training Someone How to Treat You—From the First Interaction

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March 13, 2025

Is Dating in Digital Times Even Worth It?

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March 12, 2025

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March 7, 2025

The Big Myth About Older Men and Younger Women: Busted!

The myth that men only want younger women gets clicks because it stings. It isn't a universal truth, and I'll show you why.

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February 5, 2025

Love, Hormones, and a Fresh Start: Your Guide to Dating After 50

At our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.

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Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce: 8 Strategies for SuccessDivorce

January 20, 2025

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Top 12 Safety Tips for Dating (Including Online)Red Flags

January 18, 2025

Top 12 Safety Tips for Dating (Including Online)

Scammers and bad intentions exist, but you do not have to live in fear. Here are 12 smart safety tips for dating online and in person.

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September 15, 2024

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If dating work isn't paying off, you may be overlooking one key step. This exercise helps you fix your picker using your 3H's.

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Honesty in Relationships: A Path to True Connection. With Laurie Gerber & Samia BanoTrust

September 3, 2024

Honesty in Relationships: A Path to True Connection. With Laurie Gerber & Samia Bano

How to Keep Love Alive—Or Find It Again—After 50. In this episode, we talk about how to stop repeating old patterns, how to use Laurie’s “Three H’s” (Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha) to evaluate love interests, and how to keep connection alive in long-term relationships. Whether you're…

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July 2, 2024

Magnetizing Your Perfect Match and Cultivating More True Love in Your Life with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber

Awakening Aphrodite host Amy Fournier welcomes Laurie Gerber to explore head-heart-body wisdom, what prospective partners really want, and how radical honesty helps people magnetize a compatible match and cultivate lasting love.

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Are You Ready to Date Like You Mean It?Dating Mindset

June 30, 2024

Are You Ready to Date Like You Mean It?

TeaTime Midlife Edition host Regina Young asks Laurie Gerber what it means to date like you mean it—bringing clarity, intention, and honest self-assessment to the search for love in midlife.

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Let's Get Honest: Is it Lying, A Liability, or a Limiting BeliefTrust

June 28, 2024

Let's Get Honest: Is it Lying, A Liability, or a Limiting Belief

Shot At Love host Kerry Brett and Laurie Gerber get candid about lies of omission, outright misrepresentation, self-worth, and the limiting beliefs that make honesty feel risky in dating and relationships.

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Got Daddy Issues?Attachment Styles

June 16, 2024

Got Daddy Issues?

I keep telling women it's not about whether YOU are good enough. Here's how daddy issues can sneak into your dating picks.

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Create the Relationships of Your Dreams in MidlifeHealthy Relationships

June 13, 2024

Create the Relationships of Your Dreams in Midlife

Wellegant Woman host Karen Viesta talks with Laurie Gerber about the lies that keep women from the love they want—and a practical three-step process for creating more honesty, passion, pleasure, and connection in midlife.

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The Head, The Heart, The HooHaDating Mindset

June 5, 2024

The Head, The Heart, The HooHa

Unmatch Me Now host Idan sits down with Laurie Gerber to talk about dating after 50, the promises and pitfalls of dating apps, radical honesty, and balancing the head, the heart, and physical attraction.

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Laurie Gerber: Expert in the Field of Life and RelationshipPersonal Growth

May 28, 2024

Laurie Gerber: Expert in the Field of Life and Relationship

The Rewrite host Wendy Sloane talks with Laurie Gerber about the near-divorce that changed her life, the Handel Method, and two decades spent helping people rewrite the patterns that shape love and relationships.

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Dating After DivorceDivorce

May 23, 2024

Dating After Divorce

The Praying Single Mom host Lekeshia Cody sits down with Laurie Gerber for an honest conversation about dating after divorce, with practical guidance on healing, readiness, and creating a healthier next relationship.

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A Guide To Dating As A Single Mom: Happy Mother's DayFamily

May 12, 2024

A Guide To Dating As A Single Mom: Happy Mother's Day

SINGLE MOMS: I’ll give you the bottom line first: A person who doesn’t think your kid(s) is a value add to life itself is not YOUR soulmate!

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A Female Dating Coach PerspectiveDating Challenges

May 9, 2024

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School of Attraction host Damien Diecke welcomes Laurie Gerber for a candid woman’s-eye view of modern dating, including the mistakes men and women repeat, how approaches land, and what creates a more honest connection.

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Is Honesty Really The Best Policy in Dating and Relationship?Trust

May 6, 2024

Is Honesty Really The Best Policy in Dating and Relationship?

Project Loving Myself host Sanaiyah Gurnamal asks Laurie Gerber whether honesty is really the best policy in dating—and how telling the truth from the first date can filter for more meaningful, lasting connections.

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Divorce Detoxification: Do You Need It?Divorce

May 5, 2024

Divorce Detoxification: Do You Need It?

What happens if you are not OVER your divorce? You need DIVORCE DETOXIFICATION!

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April 30, 2024

Date Like You Mean It: Dating Advice For 50+ Women with Laurie Gerber Ep 78: Too Young To Be Old

Modern dating can be confusing and exhausting but it doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode of Too Young To Be Old, Diane dives into the world of dating after 50 with Laurie Gerber, relationship coach and former resident love expert at Match.com. Laurie shares the message…

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April 20, 2024

Affordable Online Dating Courses: How One Love Expert Makes Her Coaching Accessible

Wondering if there's an age limit to love and intimacy? Navigating relationships after 50 can feel unfamiliar and challenging. Finding love and connection in later years, including identifying compatible partners and maintaining open communication, comes with challenges. It…

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Learning to Reveal the Truth in Your MarriageHealthy Relationships

April 17, 2024

Learning to Reveal the Truth in Your Marriage

Laurie Gerber joins Enneagram and Marriage host Christa Hardin to unpack why honesty can feel unsafe between partners—and how couples can tell harder truths, receive them without shutting down, and build a marriage where candor creates closeness.

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Have You Had "The Click?" The One Where You Know You Are Going To Find Your Soulmate?Attraction

March 30, 2024

Have You Had "The Click?" The One Where You Know You Are Going To Find Your Soulmate?

The "click" is when you stop being a victim of past love failures and become the author of a brave new chapter of love-hunting.

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Are You An Unhappy Single Person? Here's Help.Dating Mindset

March 24, 2024

Are You An Unhappy Single Person? Here's Help.

There are millions of unhappy single people in the world and I don’t want you to be one of them!

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Why Must I Swipe Swipe Swipe, Delete, Delete, DeleteDating Apps

March 17, 2024

Why Must I Swipe Swipe Swipe, Delete, Delete, Delete

My first answer: dating is honest work. My second: maybe you don't have to work SO hard, because you may be making it harder.

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5 Strategies to Infuse more RomanceLove

December 31, 2023

5 Strategies to Infuse more Romance

If your New Year's resolution is more romance, take my quiz. See how you're showing up, then try five strategies to keep love hot.

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7 Questions to Ask Yourself at the End of the YearPersonal Growth

December 24, 2023

7 Questions to Ask Yourself at the End of the Year

Here is your end of the year exercise. I never miss doing it myself and it works every time! Answer the following, in writing!

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Want To Establish An Ideal Relationship? Set These 4 Boundaries!Boundaries

December 17, 2023

Want To Establish An Ideal Relationship? Set These 4 Boundaries!

FAQ: What are boundaries I can implement in dating to establish my ideal relationship? ANSWER: These 4 things:

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Are Your Holidays Delightful or Disastrous? A Little Design Goes A Long Way!Family

December 10, 2023

Are Your Holidays Delightful or Disastrous? A Little Design Goes A Long Way!

No two people want the same holiday. If you haven't talked about what matters most, you'll likely end up stressed and short on what you needed.

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November 24, 2023

The Antidote To Fear And Loneliness: Gratitude, 8 Ways To Practice It

I know holidays can stir loss, loneliness, and comparison. Gratitude is my antidote, and here are 8 ways to practice it.

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Are We Compatible? How to Know if You Should Proceed With a Particular SomeoneCompatibility

November 14, 2023

Are We Compatible? How to Know if You Should Proceed With a Particular Someone

Compatibility isn't matching interests or backgrounds. It's shared values. I'll show you how to find your top five and test them in real life.

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Charm, Don’t Spook Them: 4 Essential First Date Tips Revealed! 🎃First Dates

October 22, 2023

Charm, Don’t Spook Them: 4 Essential First Date Tips Revealed! 🎃

Don't let first-date nerves turn you into someone you're not. Here are four tips to keep your charm and lose the spooky factor.

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October 8, 2023

Testing the Dating Waters: 6 Red Flags to Watch Out For During the First Three Dates

Do you ever get so excited to finally find someone decent to date that you let your guard down and excuse or disregard RED FLAGS??

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Best 3 Tips for Handling Rejection Well While DatingHealing

June 4, 2023

Best 3 Tips for Handling Rejection Well While Dating

Rejection is part of dating, but it doesn't have to wreck you. Here are 3 tips to handle it like a pro and keep your heart open.

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4 MUSTS For Developing Trust While DatingTrust

May 28, 2023

4 MUSTS For Developing Trust While Dating

Why is Trust so important? You might say developing trust is what dating is all about--to see if the person is a good match for you.

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Discovering Invisible Labor In Couples And What To Do About ItEmotional Intelligence

May 21, 2023

Discovering Invisible Labor In Couples And What To Do About It

Couples fight about division of labor. Successful couples name invisible labor, appreciate it, and may redistribute responsibilities.

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5 Tips For A Succesful First DateFirst Dates

May 9, 2023

5 Tips For A Succesful First Date

Good news! Everyone is making the same dating mistakes and they are fixable! With these 5 tips!

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Top 5 Dos and Don’ts For Your Slam Dunk Dating Profile 🏀🧺Dating Profiles

April 30, 2023

Top 5 Dos and Don’ts For Your Slam Dunk Dating Profile 🏀🧺

Everyone makes the same profile mistakes. Here are 5 dos and don'ts to make yours accurate, clear, and more likely to find your match.

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Dating Hack: 5 Things You'll Learn From A Video Chat That You Need to KnowOnline Dating

March 27, 2023

Dating Hack: 5 Things You'll Learn From A Video Chat That You Need to Know

There are 5 things THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW that you will learn by setting up a video chat with a potential date…

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March 5, 2023

Make Awkward Talks Less Painful with this 8-Step Awesome Cheat Sheet 📜

Dating requires awkward talks about sex, STIs, kids, and monogamy. I have an 8-step cheat sheet to make them less painful and a little easier.

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February 5, 2023

How to Have the Conversation to Establish Monogamy in 4 Easy Steps 👣👣

Never assume you're monogamous just because you're dating. By Date #3, ask if you both want the same thing before you get attached.

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Bad Listeners Never Run Out of Excuses. Check These Out!Communication

January 29, 2023

Bad Listeners Never Run Out of Excuses. Check These Out!

I was a bad listener, and I know the excuses that keep it going. Here are the ones I used and the truths that changed me.

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Apology Pitfalls Are Everywhere. I'll Tell You How to Avoid ThemCommunication

January 23, 2023

Apology Pitfalls Are Everywhere. I'll Tell You How to Avoid Them

Here is another example of a bad apology. If you missed last week’s example…

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Effective Apologies: This Is How They WorkCommunication

January 15, 2023

Effective Apologies: This Is How They Work

The format of a good apology should go like this…

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4 Secrets To Evaluating Your RelationshipHealthy Relationships

January 8, 2023

4 Secrets To Evaluating Your Relationship

Your partner must satisfy your Head, Heart, and Hoo-ha for you to stay happy in love. Here are 4 secrets to evaluate if all three are met.

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Partner Not Listening? I’ll Show You How to Change ThatCommunication

November 20, 2022

Partner Not Listening? I’ll Show You How to Change That

So many people feel their partners don’t listen well. Here is what doesn’t work to inspire listening…

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Why Dating While Ashamed Doesn't Work and How to Fix itHealing

November 13, 2022

Why Dating While Ashamed Doesn't Work and How to Fix it

I find secrets hiding in almost every dater I coach. The way out of shame starts with self-love, and here is how to begin.

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Love is the Only Game in Town, Here's How to PlayLove

October 23, 2022

Love is the Only Game in Town, Here's How to Play

Love is the only game in town. In this podcast you’ll hear how to play the game…

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How an Expert Masters Love: Take Advantage of My Experience 💖Love

October 16, 2022

How an Expert Masters Love: Take Advantage of My Experience 💖

Dating without the right ingredients is like making pancakes without eggs. Let me show you how I master love, with real experience.

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Would Pavlok-style Shock Therapy Work For Your Relationship Problems?Healthy Relationships

October 2, 2022

Would Pavlok-style Shock Therapy Work For Your Relationship Problems?

I couldn't stop interrupting just by wanting to. Here's how Pavlok-style shock therapy might help you break bad relationship habits.

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How to Keep Your Love Connections Fresh, Tight and LastingHealthy Relationships

September 18, 2022

How to Keep Your Love Connections Fresh, Tight and Lasting

This conversation is full of A-HA moments, tips, and straight up great advice to keep your love connections fresh, tight, and lasting.

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My 4 Best "Back to School/Real Life" HacksPersonal Growth

September 11, 2022

My 4 Best "Back to School/Real Life" Hacks

Does your household go haywire in September? Mine does. Here are the best household hacks I have discovered to make things run more smoothly…

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Is the Division of Labor Fair in Your Household? 🙋‍♀️Healthy Relationships

September 4, 2022

Is the Division of Labor Fair in Your Household? 🙋‍♀️

I'll be frank: the patriarchy is getting on my nerves. Too much household work still falls to women, and it is not a fair tradeoff.

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4 Tips for Positioning Negative Feedback So it Can be HeardCommunication

August 21, 2022

4 Tips for Positioning Negative Feedback So it Can be Heard

Do people get defensive when you give them negative feedback? I have 4 tips to help you phrase it so they can really hear you.

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In Conflict, Do You Own Your Part? Ask Yourself These 8 Questions!Emotional Intelligence

August 14, 2022

In Conflict, Do You Own Your Part? Ask Yourself These 8 Questions!

Giving tough feedback? Own your part first. These 8 questions help you see your side of a conflict before you ever speak up.

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3 Curious Things We Learned from Practicing Listening 🙉Communication

August 7, 2022

3 Curious Things We Learned from Practicing Listening 🙉

We practiced listening in a clinic, and learned 3 curious things about truth, attention, and what people reveal when you truly listen.

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July 24, 2022

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What we think are going to be the predictors of success in relationships simply are not! And now there is scientific proof…

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Are you A Good Listener? 👂🙉 Find Out and Fix With These 3 Steps.Communication

July 10, 2022

Are you A Good Listener? 👂🙉 Find Out and Fix With These 3 Steps.

Ever been accused of being a bad listener? We need a training camp for listening. Here are 3 steps to find out and fix it.

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The #1 Communication Problem in Couples, Do you have it?Communication

July 4, 2022

The #1 Communication Problem in Couples, Do you have it?

In a recent survey we discovered what couples fight about most. Communication topped the list with complaints like…

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Vacation Planner for Couples and FamiliesFamily

June 26, 2022

Vacation Planner for Couples and Families

Vacations can bring stress and disappointment. This summer I want you to nerd out on planning with your loved ones so the vibe stays chill.

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Father’s Day Re-ImaginedFamily

June 19, 2022

Father’s Day Re-Imagined

I'm writing to anyone with or without a father: imagine the dad you wish you'd had, then feel into those traits and all the love you wanted.

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How to Stop Predictable Fights in Their Tracks 👣Communication

June 12, 2022

How to Stop Predictable Fights in Their Tracks 👣

My husband and I fight about money, hosting, and sex on a predictable schedule. I asked my community what they fight about. What are your top 3?

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Your Phone Is Stupid, and It's Making You Stupid 📱😱Personal Growth

June 5, 2022

Your Phone Is Stupid, and It's Making You Stupid 📱😱

I see clients struggle with phone promises. Our phones are making us less present, and it is time to change the relationship.

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Popcorning: What it is, Why You Do it, And Why you Have to StopEmotional Intelligence

May 23, 2022

Popcorning: What it is, Why You Do it, And Why you Have to Stop

Popcorning is interrupting your partner to get attention. Here is why you do it, what it costs your relationship, and how to stop.

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Determining Your Type in 3 Easy StepsAttraction

May 8, 2022

Determining Your Type in 3 Easy Steps

It’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING! And I want you to reclaim it!

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#1 Dating Tool: How to Use the 3H Chart Whether You're on the Hunt Or Long-Term CommittedCompatibility

May 1, 2022

#1 Dating Tool: How to Use the 3H Chart Whether You're on the Hunt Or Long-Term Committed

Once you start using this incredibly useful dating tool, the 3H chart, you can say goodbye to heartbreak. What, you may be asking, are the 3H’s?

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Your Parents, and Why You Suck at Love the Same Ways They DidAttachment Styles

April 24, 2022

Your Parents, and Why You Suck at Love the Same Ways They Did

If you grew up speaking French, you'd learn French. Love works the same way. Here's why you repeat your parents' patterns.

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Become More Competent at Love: Learn the Art of The Bandaid Trade 🩹Communication

April 11, 2022

Become More Competent at Love: Learn the Art of The Bandaid Trade 🩹

Ripping off a bandaid is scary, but giving your partner feedback is similar. I say do it all at once so the wound can heal quickly.

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Do You Have Integrity in Love? It's Urgent You Analyze These 3 Things!Trust

March 27, 2022

Do You Have Integrity in Love? It's Urgent You Analyze These 3 Things!

Have you asked if you have integrity in love? The Handel Method teaches 3 levels of integrity. Here's how to analyze yours.

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Are you Addicted to A Person? 🤔 Use this Free 6-Step Detox To Believe in Love Again, Now.Attachment Styles

March 12, 2022

Are you Addicted to A Person? 🤔 Use this Free 6-Step Detox To Believe in Love Again, Now.

Can't stop thinking about someone, even years later? That may be addiction. Use my free 6-step detox to believe in love again, starting now.

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15 Excuses for Bad Relationships and Why They Are Actually Certified Crap 💩Healthy Relationships

March 5, 2022

15 Excuses for Bad Relationships and Why They Are Actually Certified Crap 💩

Not everyone can afford coaching, but you deserve help debunking bad relationship excuses. I cover the 15 most popular ones by category.

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Are You Having The Right Amount And Kind Of Sex, According To Experts?Sex

February 28, 2022

Are You Having The Right Amount And Kind Of Sex, According To Experts?

I have never worked with a couple that didn’t need to talk more about sex. So let me get the ball rolling!

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These Excuses are Killing Your RelationshipHealthy Relationships

February 21, 2022

These Excuses are Killing Your Relationship

I made plenty of relationship excuses: I was better than most, I blamed my partner, then I swore I'd tried everything. Excuses hide the truth.

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How to Trust Your Head, Heart and Hoohah When It Comes to Love with Relationship Coach Laurie GerberTrust

February 10, 2022

How to Trust Your Head, Heart and Hoohah When It Comes to Love with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber

Laurie tells host Elayne Fluker how she fell in love with coaching and how she began the journey.

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The Step by Step Guide to Figuring Out What You Really WantPersonal Growth

February 1, 2022

The Step by Step Guide to Figuring Out What You Really Want

Coaching changed my relationship priorities. I had to reexamine my values because what I valued wasn't giving me the love I really wanted.

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I Found a Better Purpose for My Marriage, Have You?Personal Growth

January 25, 2022

I Found a Better Purpose for My Marriage, Have You?

I promised I would give you some examples of purposes from former clients, and here they are…

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Why My Coach had a Great Marriage and I Didn’tHealthy Relationships

January 18, 2022

Why My Coach had a Great Marriage and I Didn’t

"What’s the purpose of my marriage?" I had never asked myself that question…

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How I Almost Lost My MarriageSuccess Stories

January 11, 2022

How I Almost Lost My Marriage

I almost lost my marriage. The fix wasn't more effort. It was doing less and listening more, and the results changed everything.

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You Have Not Tried Everything!Personal Growth

January 4, 2022

You Have Not Tried Everything!

I told my coach I'd tried everything, but I meant nagging, complaining, blaming. My quiz offers new things to try and a fresh start.

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Avoid the Top 3 Relationship Pitfalls: Holiday EditionFamily

December 21, 2021

Avoid the Top 3 Relationship Pitfalls: Holiday Edition

No two people want the same holiday. Ask your partner what matters most in a calm moment, or you'll both end up stressed and disappointed.

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Are you a Good Lover?Intimacy

December 14, 2021

Are you a Good Lover?

This is not about sexual technique, though we will get there. It is about love as a verb, and what love actually means in practice.

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My Relationship is On The Rocks: Is it Me?Emotional Intelligence

November 30, 2021

My Relationship is On The Rocks: Is it Me?

Is your relationship on the rocks? I've coached thousands, and the hard truth is you can't be happy in love if you're not happy with yourself.

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