The Value Of "Canned Responses" In Effective Dating
Almost every day I hear about the overwhelm and exhaustion women feel when engaged in online dating.
Have you ever just wished you knew all the tricks to make it easier?
Well, I am here for you! My life’s work has been to find and codify ways to make dating easier, more fun and more fruitful.
Today’s topic is canned responses. Because yes, many of the hacks that work in business, work in your love life too!
Canned responses are quick, standard, predetermined replies to frequently experienced situations.
I will now address the two most oft needed “canned responses” in dating.
THE SITUATION: You aren’t sure if the person wants to ask you out or ask you out again.
The canned response: “If you asked me out (again) I’d say yes.”
THE SITUATION: You’ve been on a date, or you’ve been texting and you know you do not want to proceed but you also don’t want to hurt the person’s feelings, ghost, or lead them on.
The canned response: It has been lovely getting to know you. I don’t think we’re a romantic match./I’m not feeling the “spark.” I wish you the best of luck.
Notice how thorough these short responses/statements are? They cover a lot in only a few words that are easy to memorize or cut and paste.
I have known many women who avoid dating altogether because they become so frustrated not knowing if something will proceed to the next level or anxious not knowing how they’ll get out of something they DO NOT want.
This solves that and helps you move quickly towards finding your person.
I normally shy away from teaching tactics because it’s so important that you have your mindset right and your desires clear before employing tactics. But today I thought I’d just throw you something you can use right away to simplify your dating life.
Love,
