To The Ghosted Among Us: Some Important Coaching

If you keep getting your heart broken when you get ghosted, here is the coaching:

STOP FALLING FOR THOSE WHO SAY, BUT DO NOT DO, THE THINGS YOU WANT!

I am sorry for the hurt and understand how hard it is to not take it personally when someone is nice, kind, and says the right things, and then disappears.

Please consider benching yourself from dating in order to take the time to do your own work and develop a thicker skin.

The dating game is different than it has ever been, with everyone always feeling (and actually having) infinite choices to distract them. It is way easier to get hurt.

Take the “Are you Ready to Date Like You Mean It?” Quiz to get some insights into the work you may need to do for your own self-love.

When you have SELF-LOVE nailed, you don’t NEED to find your person–you just want to!

If you are someone who is susceptible to being fooled by someone who says the right things, here is what I want you to ask yourself after each interaction:

1) What do his actions (not his words) tell you? Be honest!

2) Do you feel totally free to say what you are thinking and feeling? Are you saying it?

3) Does he seem to feel free too...in other words does he say what he likes, but also voice concerns (which are inevitable when 2 people are really trying to see if they can make it work)?

Are you willing to use these criteria to see if someone is worth a 2nd date/3rd date?

These questions will reveal truth you may not want to see, but need to.

If you need the support of other mature, brilliant women in this topsy turvy dating experience, please join my private coaching group that comes with my Master the Art of Love course!

Love,