Should I Give A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To A Second Chance?

So, you aren’t attracted at first, but you’re lonely, and you are looking for the love of your life!

And maybe you haven't made such good choices in the past when you picked based on what you were attracted to, so….

Maybe you want to change your type to a nicer, better guy?!

Read Amy’s DM to me…

Have you ever been torn like that? Everything seems good but the attraction? And maybe the attraction could grow, but maybe it won’t, and then it will be even more awkward to “pass?”

This is a very common issue and here is what I have learned from coaching daters for 20 years:

1. You should not sacrifice attraction. If there is zero to find cute, cut bait and say bye-bye. But if you like EVERYTHING else and he’s just not your type…stay in the game a little longer!

2. Don’t be attached to your “type.” Many many people who are happily paired up report that the person did not at first appear to be “their type.” but there was something appealing–could be the swagger, the style, the smell,  the smile, or most often the way the person made them feel! Lean into what is making you feel good.

3. Tell the truth. When it comes to chemistry and physical attraction, lots of things are changeable. Height and penis size are NOT among them, but clothing, weight, style, teeth, nails, grooming are all changeable!

If he’s into you and wants to make it work, it is okay to tell a man (very gracefully) what would turn you on in terms of his look. I could show you some amazing before and after photos! Sometimes he’s just waiting for you to guide and encourage him, and make it worth his efforts!

I love to help guide women in their dating adventures to ensure it is the most fun and most productive!

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Love,