Dating Hack: 5 Things You'll Learn From A Video Chat That You Need to Know

If you already purchased Master the Art of Love you know the genius of a Video Chat. If not, let me give you the scoop….

There are 5 things THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW that you will learn by setting up a video chat with a potential date.

1) If there’s chemistry.

You cannot tell for sure if there is good chemistry over text or a phone call. Anyone who thinks you are too demanding because you ask to check for chemistry before going on a live date, is not your person!

Chemist dog running experiments

2) What kind of environment your potential date is in.

Texting and talking is great but seeing a person and their surroundings takes it up a whole other notch. Is anyone yelling “honey” or “daddy” in the background, do things look put together, can they only talk on the go? These are things you want to know!

Man on TV interrupted by his daughter

3) What they lied about on their profile.


Sorry, but the statistics are staggering. Even well-intentioned people lie on their dating profiles: weight, height, general appearance, age–you name it!   And now they can use AI to completely fake their pics! Before wasting time, money and mascara on a live date, find out who they really are. 

Woman saying "I am who I say I am"

4) If they are comfortable enough with themselves to have a video chat.

Someone who is too ashamed of how they look or where they live–or is hiding something even more interesting--will weed themselves out at this stage. That’s a great benefit to you. 

5) If they are attracted to you enough and available enough to have a video chat.

Someone who is not really available or attracted to you will not take the time to have a video chat with you, good, now you know! Someone who is just looking for a booty call will also fail to take the time to really vet you, the way you want to vet them. Dodge that bullet if you are looking for something serious!

For how to ask for the video chat, check out last week’s blog.

This is just the beginning of what you need to know to date effectively and happily in the modern era.

 
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