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The end of a marriage can leave you asking: Who am I now? You may have spent a long time being somebody's wife, co-parent, or keeping the household moving through much tension. Then the structure disappears, and even freedom can feel disorienting.
Read moreFinding love is one skill. Keeping it alive is another, and I learned that the hard way. Here is how to build love that lasts after 50.
Read moreDesire doesn't die after 50. It changes. This candid guide covers menopause, libido, and the talks that make intimacy better.
Read moreSomething feels off a few weeks in, but you can't name it. Here is how to tell a normal rough patch from real signs of incompatibility.
Read moreYou see the red flags, then talk yourself out of them. I have coached women for 20 years. Here are 6 red flags and the pattern to stop.
Read moreA woman leaves an unhappy marriage, promises things will be different, then the same fights and slow disappointment return. That is not bad luck.
Read moreYou're over 50 and dating feels exhausting. I've helped hundreds of women at the edge of the dating pool. Here's your complete guide.
Read morePeople lie in small, strategic, sometimes unconscious ways. I've seen it derail good matches on profiles, first dates, and beyond. The 7 lies.
Read moreDating after 50 can feel like a strange new world, not a cute adventure. Here's how to feel good about it again, step by step.
Read moreIf you keep attracting the same wrong man, hear this: you are not broken. You are running an unconscious pattern, and patterns can change.
Read moreI coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.
Read moreI'm not judging you if you followed the third-date rule. Here's why it can backfire, and what to weigh before sleeping with someone new.
Read moreI hear it every week: "Where are the good men?" If you think they're all taken or missing, let's talk about what's really happening.
Read moreI'm saying what most women over 50 think but don't say: can sex still be great? I brought in an expert who changed how I see desire.
Read moreA client's dating profile was clearly written by ChatGPT, and I had a small breakdown. Here's why AI can't replace the human part of dating.
Read moreMen say women send signals instead of asking directly. Often that is because you do not yet know what you actually want.
Read more“I missed my chance.” “I have to start all over now.” Maybe you don't say it out loud, but you think it. In this episode of Love at Any Age, I'm going to argue for hope.
Read moreDating over 50 is brave. Tender. Hopeful. And yet—sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.
Read moreRejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.
Read moreIf you are dating over 50, here is the good news. Dating can actually get better with age. Not easier. But better.
Read moreAre you pushing love away without even realizing it?
Read moreOnline dating can feel like a waste of time. I've learned only some men are truly ready for commitment, and their behavior shows it.
Read moreIf you’ve been thinking, “Maybe this is the year I actually date differently,” this one is for you. Season 2 of Love at Any Age opens with the foundation: how to prepare for dating so it feels purposeful, effective, and stretch goal: fun.
Read moreYou do not need weeks of texting to know if he is right. I want you to have clarity by the third date. Here is my 3-date strategy.
Read moreAfter 50, dating isn't hard because you don't want love. It's hard because you know what doesn't work and doubt your own choices.
Read moreIn today’s episode, Nada talks with Laurie about dating and relationships. Laurie talks about her “near divorce experience” that set her on the path to coaching.
Read moreIf finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?
Read moreDating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.
Read moreIf you’re dating over 50 and wondering why it feels harder than ever to find your person, you’re not imagining it. The dating landscape has changed — and so have we. You’ve lived, loved, raised kids, maybe divorced, maybe lost a partner. You’ve learned a lot about yourself. But…
Read moreI promised myself I'd start a podcast in 2025, then grief and a move rearranged everything. Love At Any Age is what came next.
Read moreDating over 50 isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about 3H compatibility (Head, Heart, and Hoo-ha). This week, I’m giving you the exact “Spark Questions” to ask on your first three dates so you stop guessing and start choosing on purpose.
Read moreIn this season of gratitude, I share an unpopular opinion: every love choice you've made was in your best interest. Gratitude can heal.
Read moreeHarmony's prompts can help you attract better matches, but only if you answer them well. Here's how to write yours with real intention.
Read moreIf you’ve ever said, “I don’t even know what I want anymore” or “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?” — this one’s for you.
Read moreI wish my kids had taken a gap year before college. Now I think divorced daters need one too, a fling year before anything gets serious.
Read moreIf you’re a woman over 50 and haven’t done at least 7 of the 10 things I’ve listed below, you may be missing out on your “Main Character Era.”
Read moreI don't mean getting back with your ex, or staying with abuse. I mean giving a new man grace in early dating, before chemistry starts.
Read moreHost Wendy Battles talks with Laurie Gerber on Reinvention Rebels about how getting fired, reworking a marriage, and reframing menopause led Laurie to reinvent her own life, and what that means for dating after 50.
Read moreWomen send me profiles to judge, but I can't fix yours without two things. Your profile is an ad, and it can't be false advertising.
Read moreI used to run truth-telling workshops. If you have an STD, I want you to consider dating honestly, without shame, and free yourself.
Read moreMet online? Skip the noisy bar. I say make your first date a video chat, before you spend real time and energy meeting in person.
Read moreStaring at that dating app prompt? As a love coach, I'll help you answer it with the right amount of info, green flags, and mystery.
Read moreWhy do so many women fake orgasms? The reasons go beyond the physical, and there is a path to more pleasure and more honesty.
Read moreGood banter keeps the spark alive online. Use my do's and don'ts to move from messages to a video chat and then a real date.
Read moreTrying to show love but your partner feels the opposite? In early dating, love languages can mismatch like rupees and rubles.
Read moreEver Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.
Read moreFeel like you're pulling teeth to get a man talking? The secret isn't more questions. It's real listening, and it makes you more attractive.
Read moreAs a relationship expert, my mission is to help you stop wasting time on dead-end dates and find someone who’s a good match for you for long-term love. By "good match," I mean you are "in sync" on all 3H's: your head, your heart, and your hoo-ha.
Read moreIs Honesty the Best Policy in Dating? Now that you are dating over 50, you can finally be honest!
Read moreDating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.
Read moreWhat makes two people truly compatible? It’s not what you think…
Read moreNot attracted at first but lonely? Before giving him a second chance, let's look at why your type hasn't worked and what to change.
Read moreDating after divorce can feel like a strange new world. The rules are unclear, but you can find healthy love. Here is how to do it right.
Read moreBeing ghosted hurts. I explain what ghosting is and share 5 tips to avoid it, so you can date with less confusion and more confidence.
Read moreWhat do men actually want? We explore whether mature women really know, or if we're repeating assumptions and insecurities.
Read moreGhosted and reeling? Here is the coaching: stop falling for people whose words don't match their actions, and choose better.
Read moreFinding love again starts with belief. I share five reasons to believe romance is possible, even after heartbreak or a long break.
Read moreTired of apps? I've helped many women meet good men in real life. I can teach you how to do it, even if you're really nervous.
Read moreAs a relationship coach, every so often I have to encourage someone to leave their relationship. But how do we know when it’s time to cut losses?
Read moreIn this episode of Saddle Up Live, host Lesa Koski interviews relationship expert Laurie Gerber about maintaining intimacy and connection in long-term marriages. Laurie, who has been featured on shows like Dr. Phil and MTV, shares her personal journey of realizing the importance…
Read moreThe right questions early on matter more than chemistry. I'll share my Spark Questions to help you date with clarity and have more fun.
Read moreAs a dating coach, I help women cut through the chaos of choosing a dating site or app when there are simply too many choices.
Read moreIf you're post-menopausal and dating, sex can get better. Let's talk about what changes and what pleasure can look like now.
Read moreI had to reexamine my values to get the relationship I wanted. Shared principles matter more than chemistry. Let's find what matters now.
Read moreFlirt game rusty? You do not need cheesy lines. I have natural body language tips plus clean and dirtier lines that still sound like you.
Read moreAfter 20 years studying dating, I found the biggest mistakes women make can be avoided. Meet your 3H voters: Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha.
Read moreStaying too long with the wrong person often means you ignore dealbreakers. Here are warnings to watch for in early dating.
Read moreThe 3rd date is a significant milestone, it assumes you are really interested in each other and attracted– but you need to know some very important things in order to take it further.
Read moreA couple of weeks ago we discussed the most common 1st date mistakes, if you missed it, here’s the link. This week, I want to warn you about the 2nd date pitfalls!
Read moreBefore a first date, chat enough to check your 3H criteria. Then pick a quiet coffee, wine, or walk and talk to see if chemistry is there.
Read moreFirst dates can be nerve-wracking, but most mistakes are avoidable. Here are the biggest first-date mistakes and how to steer clear.
Read moreThe biggest midlife dating mistake is staying with the wrong person out of loneliness. Learn to assess compatibility from the start.
Read moreBad dates are the worst. Here are my tips from 20 years of coaching for your first three dates, so you can skip the crappy ones.
Read moreSo many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…
Read moreAttraction isn't shallow. It's confidence, presence, and how you make others feel. Here are four practical ways to become more attractive.
Read moreThe biggest mistake women make, which prevents them from finding the right person for them, is staying too long with the wrong person.
Read moreExhausted by the apps and wondering if dating is worth it? Modern dating can work, just not the way you've been doing it.
Read moreFeaturing renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the…
Read moreThe myth that men only want younger women gets clicks because it stings. It isn't a universal truth, and I'll show you why.
Read moreAt our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.
Read moreDo you really know what “your type” is? If you’re dating over 50, your “true type” might have significantly changed from your younger days. What are you really looking for now in a partner? Dating Coach and Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber explains why discovering your true…
Read moreFrom Mrs. to Ms. host Andrea Knoche talks with Laurie Gerber about the near divorce that changed her life, the Handel Method that helped her rebuild her marriage, and how she now helps others find and keep healthy love.
Read moreIn this uplifting episode, we dive into the exciting opportunity of visualizing and designing your new post-divorce life. I know how overwhelming it can be to think about the future when you're going through a major life transition, but today we’re flipping that script. We'll…
Read moreAre you seeking your dream romantic relationship?
Read moreTeaTime Midlife Edition host Regina Young asks Laurie Gerber what it means to date like you mean it—bringing clarity, intention, and honest self-assessment to the search for love in midlife.
Read moreI keep telling women it's not about whether YOU are good enough. Here's how daddy issues can sneak into your dating picks.
Read moreWellegant Woman host Karen Viesta talks with Laurie Gerber about the lies that keep women from the love they want—and a practical three-step process for creating more honesty, passion, pleasure, and connection in midlife.
Read moreThe Rewrite host Wendy Sloane talks with Laurie Gerber about the near-divorce that changed her life, the Handel Method, and two decades spent helping people rewrite the patterns that shape love and relationships.
Read moreSINGLE MOMS: I’ll give you the bottom line first: A person who doesn’t think your kid(s) is a value add to life itself is not YOUR soulmate!
Read moreThere are millions of unhappy single people in the world and I don’t want you to be one of them!
Read moreMy first answer: dating is honest work. My second: maybe you don't have to work SO hard, because you may be making it harder.
Read moreDeciding to commit is a big step. I want you to ask yourself these 5 key questions before you take yourself off the market.
Read moreIt’s a new year and I hope lasting healthy love is on the top of your list of goals for the year! If so, here is your checklist for preparation:
Read moreHere is your end of the year exercise. I never miss doing it myself and it works every time! Answer the following, in writing!
Read moreNo two people want the same holiday. If you haven't talked about what matters most, you'll likely end up stressed and short on what you needed.
Read moreI know holidays can stir loss, loneliness, and comparison. Gratitude is my antidote, and here are 8 ways to practice it.
Read moreCompatibility isn't matching interests or backgrounds. It's shared values. I'll show you how to find your top five and test them in real life.
Read moreCouples fight about division of labor. Successful couples name invisible labor, appreciate it, and may redistribute responsibilities.
Read moreGood news! Everyone is making the same dating mistakes and they are fixable! With these 5 tips!
Read moreEveryone makes the same profile mistakes. Here are 5 dos and don'ts to make yours accurate, clear, and more likely to find your match.
Read moreWhat do you think “Love” actually is? It’s give and it’s take. I love you, so here is what I want to give you:
Read moreFrustrated your partner can't give you something? Maybe you're expecting the wrong thing. A partner should enhance you, not complete you.
Read moreDating requires awkward talks about sex, STIs, kids, and monogamy. I have an 8-step cheat sheet to make them less painful and a little easier.
Read moreHere is another example of a bad apology. If you missed last week’s example…
Read moreYour partner must satisfy your Head, Heart, and Hoo-ha for you to stay happy in love. Here are 4 secrets to evaluate if all three are met.
Read moreSo many people feel their partners don’t listen well. Here is what doesn’t work to inspire listening…
Read moreI find secrets hiding in almost every dater I coach. The way out of shame starts with self-love, and here is how to begin.
Read moreIn this video, Laurie Gerber shares some tips on how to practice happiness and create better relationships. She talks about the importance of the truth, communicating effectively and being present in the moment. By following these tips, you can create more fulfilling and lasting…
Read moreLove is the only game in town. In this podcast you’ll hear how to play the game…
Read moreDating without the right ingredients is like making pancakes without eggs. Let me show you how I master love, with real experience.
Read moreDoes your household go haywire in September? Mine does. Here are the best household hacks I have discovered to make things run more smoothly…
Read moreI'll be frank: the patriarchy is getting on my nerves. Too much household work still falls to women, and it is not a fair tradeoff.
Read moreGiving tough feedback? Own your part first. These 8 questions help you see your side of a conflict before you ever speak up.
Read moreWhat we think are going to be the predictors of success in relationships simply are not! And now there is scientific proof…
Read moreEver been accused of being a bad listener? We need a training camp for listening. Here are 3 steps to find out and fix it.
Read moreIn a recent survey we discovered what couples fight about most. Communication topped the list with complaints like…
Read moreVacations can bring stress and disappointment. This summer I want you to nerd out on planning with your loved ones so the vibe stays chill.
Read moreI'm writing to anyone with or without a father: imagine the dad you wish you'd had, then feel into those traits and all the love you wanted.
Read moreI see clients struggle with phone promises. Our phones are making us less present, and it is time to change the relationship.
Read moreIt’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING! And I want you to reclaim it!
Read moreOnce you start using this incredibly useful dating tool, the 3H chart, you can say goodbye to heartbreak. What, you may be asking, are the 3H’s?
Read moreRipping off a bandaid is scary, but giving your partner feedback is similar. I say do it all at once so the wound can heal quickly.
Read moreCan't stop thinking about someone, even years later? That may be addiction. Use my free 6-step detox to believe in love again, starting now.
Read moreNot everyone can afford coaching, but you deserve help debunking bad relationship excuses. I cover the 15 most popular ones by category.
Read moreI have never worked with a couple that didn’t need to talk more about sex. So let me get the ball rolling!
Read moreI made plenty of relationship excuses: I was better than most, I blamed my partner, then I swore I'd tried everything. Excuses hide the truth.
Read moreI want your relationship to have a joint dream. Try my favorite dream writing exercises to turn shared values into a vision.
Read moreLaurie tells host Elayne Fluker how she fell in love with coaching and how she began the journey.
Read moreCoaching changed my relationship priorities. I had to reexamine my values because what I valued wasn't giving me the love I really wanted.
Read moreI promised I would give you some examples of purposes from former clients, and here they are…
Read more"What’s the purpose of my marriage?" I had never asked myself that question…
Read moreI almost lost my marriage. The fix wasn't more effort. It was doing less and listening more, and the results changed everything.
Read moreI told my coach I'd tried everything, but I meant nagging, complaining, blaming. My quiz offers new things to try and a fresh start.
Read moreIn 2021 I kept a New Year's promise for the first time. Here's what I learned about ending your year powerfully, plus my birthday struggles.
Read moreNo two people want the same holiday. Ask your partner what matters most in a calm moment, or you'll both end up stressed and disappointed.
Read moreFor years I blamed my partner for my unhappiness. When my coach asked why, I said it was all his fault. Here's what I learned.
Read moreIs your relationship on the rocks? I've coached thousands, and the hard truth is you can't be happy in love if you're not happy with yourself.
Read moreLaurie is a guest teacher on The $100 MBA, on keeping your promises to yourself as the root of success in business, life and relationships.
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