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August 27, 2026

Sex and Intimacy After 50: The Complete Guide

I'm going to talk about sex. Directly. Because most people won't, and that silence is costing you. Here is what I know after coaching women through dating and relationships for two decades: desire doesn't die after 50. It changes. It gets more specific. It gets more honest, if…

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July 30, 2026

When to Have Sex While Dating: 6 Questions to Ask

The dating game after 50 comes with a lot of unwritten rules. The biggest one? The third date is when sex is supposed to happen. Maybe you followed that rule. Maybe you walked away from a promising new relationship wondering why romantic relationships that felt so real suddenly…

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April 23, 2026

Should I Have Sex on the 3rd date?

One of the biggest mistakes women make when they first get back into dating, especially after a divorce or a long dry spell, is having sex on the 1st date, the 2nd date, or following the famous "third date rule" on the long-awaited 3rd date. I’m not judging you. I understand it.

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April 9, 2026

Sex Over 50: What Nobody Tells You About Desire

I am going to say the thing most women over 50 are thinking but not saying out loud: I am not sure I can have a great sex life anymore. Maybe you have quietly decided that the chapter is closed. Maybe the physical changes, the low libido, the vaginal dryness, the hot flashes,…

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September 4, 2025

So you have an STD, To Date or Not To Date?

Once upon a time, I used to coach people in weekend workshops. About 15 people would sit in a circle in my living room and talk about their secrets and lies. The premise of the retreat was: “the truth will set you free.” I did a whole TedX talk about it.

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May 17, 2025

Can Sex Get Better After Menopause?

If you’re post-menopausal and dating (or thinking about dating), I want you to know: you are not alone, you are not too old, too dry, too rusty, and you are not done. So many women in their 50s, 60s, and beyond are re-entering the dating world and wondering with regards to sex……

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