My Relationship is On The Rocks: Is it Me?

It’s normal to ask yourself if the problems in your relationship are your fault. It’s also normal to blame them on your partner. The truth lies somewhere in between.

I’ve been coaching clients for 17 years including thousands of people trying to make love work well and I’ve taken away a very important learning:

You cannot be happy in a partnership if you are not happy with yourself. You might be rolling your eyes and saying “Duh, Laurie, that’s the oldest cliché in the book. But really think about it, how hard are you working to make sure you are happy?

I still remember the day my mom told me (around age 12) that she made the decision to stop relying on my Dad to make her happy. Guess how old she was?….40! And then I remember thinking I would NEVER wait that long in my marriage. But I didn’t do a lot better. I made the switch in my 30’s after many years struggling in my relationship with my husband, and it was only because I had a kick-ass coach who pushed me to RATE MY LIFE!

Being honest with yourself about YOUR life before focusing on assessing your relationship is KEY to getting the help you actually need.

Handel Group®, the company that trained me, came up with this amazing Quiz that helps you assess in just 5 minutes, what’s really going on in your life and why you aren’t at the peak of happiness. Do you dare to take the quiz?

It’s a brave thing to do, because once you see your scores, you can’t unsee them!

You’ll find out just how much your relationship is the problem...vs. your life!

Have you heard about the Love-in Community? I created the Love-in Community, which meets weekly for coaching with me on Zoom, so nobody has to go through figuring out relationships alone.

Who we are: We are loving truth-tellers on a mission to be happy in LOVE!

What’s our purpose: Empowering earnest people to give their best LOVE!

Come to the Love in Community and check out how other people are handling their problems, fixing their relationships and getting the courage to leave when they find out it’s really not a match. Yup. ALL THAT!

Can’t wait to meet you.