4 Not-So-Superficial (But Essential) Ways to Make Yourself More Attractive

You may think it seems shallow to care about being attractive. But it is the most important element that determines whether or not you will find a love match.

Here are 4 ways you can become more attractive:

1. Exude warmth: Did anyone ever tell you you have resting bitch face? Most people who have it, don’t know they have it. Want to be approachable? Inform your face and your body language.

Watch other people to discover what kinds of facial expressions, smiles and body language exude warmth and which don’t. Sometimes you’ll need to exude less warmth– so this comes in handy either way!

2. Be curious: Show interest in what others have to say by listening well and occasionally saying back what you heard or asking a follow up question based on what the person shared. This will make you attractive to potential mates as well as friends and colleagues!

Sassy woman saying "I'm so curious, I can't resist"

3. Love yourself: Your self-talk matters. Even though you think it’s private and nobody can hear it, in a sense, everyone is getting the broadcast of what you think of yourself all the time. If you are saying mean and critical things to yourself you will appear to be in pain, because you are.

If you are saying lovely things to yourself, you will appear attractive and attract the kinds of people who also want to say lovely things to you!

4. Do the thing: If there is something you have been wanting to do for your look– a new haircut, color, laser treatments, skin treatments, new wardrobe, new workout-etc. BOOK THE APPOINTMENT right now!

I mean it, how dare you spend one more moment criticizing yourself in the mirror when you could do something about it? NO MORE, make the change you wish you would and watch your confidence and attractiveness soar!

One last bit of advice, if you find dating hard, join my group coaching program and watch the modules on how to date like you mean it. It is priced in a ridiculously affordable way so anyone can work on self-love and attractiveness in a community of support!

You deserve it!

Love,

 
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