❓The Most Important Questions for Your First Dates

Written By Laurie Gerber

Dating over 50 isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about 3H compatibility (Head, Heart, and Hoo-ha). This week, I’m giving you the exact “Spark Questions” to ask on your first three dates so you stop guessing and start choosing on purpose.

In this episode of Love at Any Age, I show you how to use your 3H Chart to design questions that quickly reveal practical fit, emotional fit, and chemistry — without turning the date into an interview.

Here’s what I’ll walk you through:
 ✨ What Spark Questions are — and why they build confidence + flow
🧭 How to use your 3H (Head, Heart, Hoo-ha) to create your list
📅 Which questions to ask on Date 1, Date 2, and Date 3
 📝 Do’s & don’ts so you get real answers (not PR-agent talk)

Laurie Gerber
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