Sex After 50: Why Desire Fades and How to Get It Back
October 19, 2026
Thinking about dating again, but worried about sex?
Laurie Gerber and Suzanne Noble get candid about desire after 50.
Here's what we get into:
- Why painful sex after menopause can get brushed off, and what that leaves you wondering about dating again.
- What Suzanne says about hormonal changes when you think you've lost interest in sex.
- Where Suzanne starts when you want to feel sexual again before meeting someone new.
- The pelvic floor conversation that takes an unexpected turn toward arousal.
- When desire doesn't show up the way you remember: the distinction Laurie calls an eye opener.
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Links from this episode
Want Suzanne’s free resources or the experts she mentioned? You’ll find their links below.
Suzanne’s links
- Suzanne’s Sex Advice for Seniors website
- Suzanne’s memoir, The Butcher, The Baker, The Candlestick Maker
Suzanne’s second book, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life
- Free downloads: Yes/No/Maybe checklist; 10 Most Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex
- Suzanne on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn
- Experts Suzanne mentioned: Dr. Lauren Streicher; Dr. Kelly Casperson; Dr. Rena Malik