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Dating Profiles

September 14, 2026

She Changed 3 Things in Her Dating Profile: Matches Skyrocketed

Your profile can be full of good intentions and still disappear in the crowd. Laurie breaks down three practical changes you can make today, from choosing better photos to writing a bio that gives the right person a reason to lean in. You’ll also see why widening your search…

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Sex

August 27, 2026

Sex and Intimacy After 50: The Complete Guide

Desire doesn't die after 50. It changes. This candid guide covers menopause, libido, and the talks that make intimacy better.

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Age Gaps

August 20, 2026

5 Reasons Men Are Drawn to Older Women

I have coached daters for 20 years, and younger men keep seeking women over 50. You have the upper hand more than you think. Here are 5 reasons.

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Sex

July 30, 2026

When to Have Sex While Dating: 6 Questions to Ask

The third-date rule is not a readiness plan. Here are 6 questions to ask before sex so you can know when you are truly ready.

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Dating Apps

July 23, 2026

Are There Securely Attached People on Dating Apps? (And How Do You Find Them?)

Are there emotionally healthy people on dating apps? Fair question. Here is how you can spot securely attached partners and find them.

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Boundaries

July 10, 2026

How to Stop Settling in Relationships and Finally Date Like a Woman of Value Over 50

In today's Love at Any Age episode, I sit down with Sandy Weiner, founder of Last First Date and author of 3 books, including her newest collection of real love success stories. We dig into one of the most misunderstood concepts in dating: knowing your worth. Sandy made a…

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Getting Started

June 11, 2026

The Complete Guide to Finding Love Again After 50

You're over 50 and dating feels exhausting. I've helped hundreds of women at the edge of the dating pool. Here's your complete guide.

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Dating Mindset

June 4, 2026

Why Is a Man Over 50 Still Single?

My family's tale of Sylvia, who questioned every hat and every salesperson, says a lot about why some men stay single. Let's explore the mindset.

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Dating Mindset

June 4, 2026

All the Single Ladies: Hacks for Dating After 60

I recently joined Lori Dube and Constance Bauer on their wonderful podcast, We Ain’t Dead Yet, for an episode called All the Single Ladies: Hacks for Dating After 60.

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Dating Mindset

May 21, 2026

Dating Over 50: How to Actually Feel Good About It Again

Dating after 50 can feel like a strange new world, not a cute adventure. Here's how to feel good about it again, step by step.

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Attraction

May 14, 2026

Attracting The Wrong Men After 50? The Real Reason

If you keep attracting the same wrong man, hear this: you are not broken. You are running an unconscious pattern, and patterns can change.

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Compatibility

May 7, 2026

8 Things High-Caliber Mature Men Actually Want

I coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.

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Sex

April 9, 2026

Sex Over 50: What Nobody Tells You About Desire

I'm saying what most women over 50 think but don't say: can sex still be great? I brought in an expert who changed how I see desire.

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Dating Mindset

March 19, 2026

Dating Over 50: Are Your Girlfriends Helping or Hurting?

Dating over 50 is brave. Tender. Hopeful. And yet—sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.

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Healing

March 12, 2026

Handling Rejection After 50 Without Losing Hope

Rejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.

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Dating Challenges

March 5, 2026

5 Dating Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make — And How to Stop Them Fast

If you are dating over 50, here is the good news. Dating can actually get better with age. Not easier. But better.

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Breakups

February 26, 2026

The "One" Didn’t Get Away: Letting Go and Moving Forward

There is no single "the one" who got away. I explain why letting go of that story is what finally lets you move forward in love.

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Getting Started

January 30, 2026

The 10-Step Guide for Getting Ready (When You’re Done Wasting Time)

If you’ve been thinking, “Maybe this is the year I actually date differently,” this one is for you. Season 2 of Love at Any Age opens with the foundation: how to prepare for dating so it feels purposeful, effective, and stretch goal: fun.

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Attachment Styles

January 8, 2026

The One Pattern That Subconsciously Wrecks Midlife Dating (and How to Stop It) 💥

If you keep dating the same men, it's not because you're bad at dating. Patterns run the show until you name them. Here's how to stop.

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Confidence

January 2, 2026

Self-Love After 50: 6 Hidden Obstacles That Block Love

Thinking about dating again? I say there's no expiration date on love. Here are 6 hidden obstacles blocking you. You are not too late.

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Getting Started

December 26, 2025

New Year, New Love: How to Make Your Love Resolutions Actually Work

If you’re heading into the New Year thinking, “I want love… but I’m not sure how to get it,” this episode is for you. In Episode 10 of Love at Any Age, we’re continuing the self-love series and looking at the other big obstacles that sabotage dating: bad habits, family dynamics,…

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Getting Started

December 26, 2025

How Women Can Get Ready for Dating Sunday and Make Their Love Resolution Come True

If finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?

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Confidence

December 19, 2025

Stop Saying “I’m Not Enough”: Dating Confidence for Women 50+

🧠 Why “I’m not enough” is a cover story — and what’s really underneath low self-esteem 🧩 The 6 most common insecurities women over 50 carry into dating 👀 The three choices you have when it comes to your body image — and which one changed everything for me ⚡ The shortcut to…

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Getting Started

December 18, 2025

Ready to date again after 50? Laurie Gerber shares 10 practical, soulful steps to prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love—starting now.

Dating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.

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Dating Mindset

December 11, 2025

Dating Over 50: 8 Unrealistic Expectations That Keep You Single — And How to Shift Them

If you’re dating over 50 and wondering why it feels harder than ever to find your person, you’re not imagining it. The dating landscape has changed — and so have we. You’ve lived, loved, raised kids, maybe divorced, maybe lost a partner. You’ve learned a lot about yourself. But…

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Love

December 4, 2025

We're Finding Love On My New Podcast: Love At Any Age

I promised myself I'd start a podcast in 2025, then grief and a move rearranged everything. Love At Any Age is what came next.

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First Dates

November 28, 2025

❓The Most Important Questions for Your First Dates

Dating over 50 isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about 3H compatibility (Head, Heart, and Hoo-ha). This week, I’m giving you the exact “Spark Questions” to ask on your first three dates so you stop guessing and start choosing on purpose.

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Healing

November 27, 2025

Giving Thanks for Past Loves: How Gratitude Heals the Heart

In this season of gratitude, I share an unpopular opinion: every love choice you've made was in your best interest. Gratitude can heal.

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Confidence

November 20, 2025

Body Image and Dating Over 50: What’s Really Holding You Back

A reader wrote me her weight and years of celibacy were stopping her. I tackle body image and dating with honesty and compassion.

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Healing

October 31, 2025

How to Detox from Your Past Relationships and Date Again with Confidence

If you’ve ever sworn you were done with your ex… but still find yourself checking his social media or comparing every new guy to him — this one’s for you.

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Dating Mindset

October 16, 2025

Get Better at Dating With "Main Character" Energy

If you’re a woman over 50 and haven’t done at least 7 of the 10 things I’ve listed below, you may be missing out on your “Main Character Era.”

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Dating Challenges

September 18, 2025

What to Expect When Dating a Man Over 50

If you’re a woman in later years looking for a mature man around your own age, there are some things you should expect. This list isn't meant to scare you—it’s to help you experience the dating scene with greater ease. First off, they might help you feel less crazy, because if…

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Dating Challenges

September 11, 2025

5 Most Awkward Dating Situations and How to Deal

Cringe stories shouldn't keep you from dating. With a little prep, you can handle 5 awkward situations and feel more confident.

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Trust

August 15, 2025

How Honest Should You Be on a First Date?

On our first date, he said we should brush our teeth before we kissed. I was mortified, but it led to a great kiss and 27 years of marriage.

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Intimacy

August 14, 2025

The Real Reason So Many Women Fake Orgasms—And What To Do About It

Why do so many women fake orgasms? The reasons go beyond the physical, and there is a path to more pleasure and more honesty.

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Confidence

July 31, 2025

Are You Undateable? 6 Things You May Not Realize

Ever Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.

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Dating Mindset

July 24, 2025

Navigating Dating with Ease: 4 Tips for Soothing Anxiety

If dating feels like a tightrope over lava, you're not broken. These 4 tips helped my clients calm dating anxiety and enjoy the process again.

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Intimacy

July 17, 2025

How Women Over 50 Can Support a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction

Sex can be a big dating concern. I give you the lowdown on erectile dysfunction so you can support a partner and protect intimacy.

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Dating Apps

July 10, 2025

Top Advice for Dating App Fatigue When Every Swipe is a Soul-Suck

Dating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.

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Dating Mindset

June 19, 2025

What Do Older Women Think Men Want—and Are They Right?

What do men actually want? We explore whether mature women really know, or if we're repeating assumptions and insecurities.

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Getting Started

June 12, 2025

The Best Way to Meet Men in Real Life (Even If You’re Nervous)

Tired of apps? I've helped many women meet good men in real life. I can teach you how to do it, even if you're really nervous.

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Dating Challenges

June 5, 2025

Should I Hire a Professional Matchmaker?

Curious what a professional matchmaker really does? I sat down with Jill Dunn to talk dating app burnout and long-term success.

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Red Flags

May 29, 2025

How to Protect Yourself From a Narcissist

As a relationship coach, every so often I have to encourage someone to leave their relationship. But how do we know when it’s time to cut losses?

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First Dates

May 22, 2025

10 Key Questions to Ask on the First 3 Dates for Mature Daters

The right questions early on matter more than chemistry. I'll share my Spark Questions to help you date with clarity and have more fun.

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Online Dating

May 22, 2025

Love at First Site: How to Choose the Best Dating Site Without Losing Your Mind

As a dating coach, I help women cut through the chaos of choosing a dating site or app when there are simply too many choices.

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Sex

May 17, 2025

Can Sex Get Better After Menopause?

If you're post-menopausal and dating, sex can get better. Let's talk about what changes and what pleasure can look like now.

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Sex

May 15, 2025

Sex after 50: What Women Think Men Want in Bed - Are They Getting It All Wrong? 😳

What do women really think men want in bed — and do they have it all wrong? Dating Coach & Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber reveals the top misconceptions women have about what turns men on — and how these assumptions can sabotage intimacy, connection, and confidence in the…

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First Dates

May 1, 2025

Most Common Third Date Mistakes to Avoid

The 3rd date is a significant milestone, it assumes you are really interested in each other and attracted– but you need to know some very important things in order to take it further.

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First Dates

April 17, 2025

Biggest and Most Common First Date Mistakes To Avoid

First dates can be nerve-wracking, but most mistakes are avoidable. Here are the biggest first-date mistakes and how to steer clear.

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Confidence

April 10, 2025

Am I Good Enough to be Loved for What I Am?

So many midlife women believe they're not enough to deserve love. The truth? You are worthy right now. The work is believing it enough to act.

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First Dates

April 3, 2025

Worst Date Ideas

Bad dates are the worst. Here are my tips from 20 years of coaching for your first three dates, so you can skip the crappy ones.

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Communication

April 3, 2025

Examples of Canned Responses for Dating Multiple People

I hear women overwhelmed by online dating all the time. Canned responses can make your messages charming, clear, and much easier.

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First Dates

March 27, 2025

First Date Signs He Likes You

So many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…

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Attraction

March 27, 2025

How to Make Yourself More Attractive: 4 Practical Strategies

Attraction isn't shallow. It's confidence, presence, and how you make others feel. Here are four practical ways to become more attractive.

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First Dates

March 20, 2025

What is the 3-date Rule for Finding Love After 50?

The biggest mistake women make, which prevents them from finding the right person for them, is staying too long with the wrong person.

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Online Dating

March 13, 2025

Is Dating in Digital Times Even Worth It?

Exhausted by the apps and wondering if dating is worth it? Modern dating can work, just not the way you've been doing it.

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Healing

March 10, 2025

Divorce Detox: Healing, Letting Go & Starting Fresh

Back by popular demand, relationship expert Laurie Gerber joins me to unpack one of life’s toughest transitions: divorce. How do you know when it’s truly time to walk away? And if you do, how can you navigate the emotional detox needed to heal and move forward? In this episode,…

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Age Gaps

March 7, 2025

The Big Myth About Older Men and Younger Women: Busted!

The myth that men only want younger women gets clicks because it stings. It isn't a universal truth, and I'll show you why.

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Getting Started

February 5, 2025

Love, Hormones, and a Fresh Start: Your Guide to Dating After 50

At our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.

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Divorce

January 20, 2025

Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce: 8 Strategies for Success

Welcome back to Over 50 & Flourishing! In this episode, relationship expert Laurie Gerber joins us again to share her 8 powerful strategies for success in relationships. From navigating dating after divorce to rebuilding self-confidence and trust in others, Laurie provides…

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Red Flags

January 18, 2025

Top 12 Safety Tips for Dating (Including Online)

Scammers and bad intentions exist, but you do not have to live in fear. Here are 12 smart safety tips for dating online and in person.

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Personal Growth

October 15, 2024

Hotter Than Ever: Laurie Gerber on Rebuilding Love After a Near Divorce

From Mrs. to Ms. host Andrea Knoche talks with Laurie Gerber about the near divorce that changed her life, the Handel Method that helped her rebuild her marriage, and how she now helps others find and keep healthy love.

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Attachment Styles

June 16, 2024

Got Daddy Issues?

I keep telling women it's not about whether YOU are good enough. Here's how daddy issues can sneak into your dating picks.

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Dating Mindset

April 30, 2024

Date Like You Mean It: Dating Advice For 50+ Women with Laurie Gerber Ep 78: Too Young To Be Old

Modern dating can be confusing and exhausting but it doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode of Too Young To Be Old, Diane dives into the world of dating after 50 with Laurie Gerber, relationship coach and former resident love expert at Match.com. Laurie shares the message…

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Divorce

April 17, 2024

Navigating Dating After Divorce

Relationship coach Laurie Gerber joins family-law attorney and A Year and a Day host Jaime Davis for a candid guide to dating after divorce: when you are ready, how to change old patterns, rebuild confidence, vet new partners, and protect children from a relationship moving too…

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Dating Mindset

March 24, 2024

Are You An Unhappy Single Person? Here's Help.

There are millions of unhappy single people in the world and I don’t want you to be one of them!

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Healing

November 24, 2023

The Antidote To Fear And Loneliness: Gratitude, 8 Ways To Practice It

I know holidays can stir loss, loneliness, and comparison. Gratitude is my antidote, and here are 8 ways to practice it.

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Healing

June 4, 2023

Best 3 Tips for Handling Rejection Well While Dating

Rejection is part of dating, but it doesn't have to wreck you. Here are 3 tips to handle it like a pro and keep your heart open.

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First Dates

May 9, 2023

5 Tips For A Succesful First Date

Good news! Everyone is making the same dating mistakes and they are fixable! With these 5 tips!

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Communication

March 5, 2023

Make Awkward Talks Less Painful with this 8-Step Awesome Cheat Sheet 📜

Dating requires awkward talks about sex, STIs, kids, and monogamy. I have an 8-step cheat sheet to make them less painful and a little easier.

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Commitment

February 5, 2023

How to Have the Conversation to Establish Monogamy in 4 Easy Steps 👣👣

Never assume you're monogamous just because you're dating. By Date #3, ask if you both want the same thing before you get attached.

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Healing

November 13, 2022

Why Dating While Ashamed Doesn't Work and How to Fix it

I find secrets hiding in almost every dater I coach. The way out of shame starts with self-love, and here is how to begin.

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Love

October 16, 2022

How an Expert Masters Love: Take Advantage of My Experience 💖

Dating without the right ingredients is like making pancakes without eggs. Let me show you how I master love, with real experience.

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Healthy Relationships

September 4, 2022

Is the Division of Labor Fair in Your Household? 🙋‍♀️

I'll be frank: the patriarchy is getting on my nerves. Too much household work still falls to women, and it is not a fair tradeoff.

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Personal Growth

June 5, 2022

Your Phone Is Stupid, and It's Making You Stupid 📱😱

I see clients struggle with phone promises. Our phones are making us less present, and it is time to change the relationship.

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Attachment Styles

March 12, 2022

Are you Addicted to A Person? 🤔 Use this Free 6-Step Detox To Believe in Love Again, Now.

Can't stop thinking about someone, even years later? That may be addiction. Use my free 6-step detox to believe in love again, starting now.

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Healthy Relationships

March 5, 2022

15 Excuses for Bad Relationships and Why They Are Actually Certified Crap 💩

Not everyone can afford coaching, but you deserve help debunking bad relationship excuses. I cover the 15 most popular ones by category.

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Healthy Relationships

February 21, 2022

These Excuses are Killing Your Relationship

I made plenty of relationship excuses: I was better than most, I blamed my partner, then I swore I'd tried everything. Excuses hide the truth.

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Success Stories

December 28, 2021

I Finally Did it 💪🏼

In 2021 I kept a New Year's promise for the first time. Here's what I learned about ending your year powerfully, plus my birthday struggles.

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