How to Get More Matches on Match: An Insider’s Playbook
November 2, 2026
Wondering why your Match profile isn't getting the attention it used to?
I'm talking with Alexis Ferraro, who's spent more than 20 years inside Match, about the profile choices and habits that can affect your results. I've run workshops with Match, and I have questions for her, including a few things we don't agree on.
Here's what we're getting into:
💬 The profile details that can make someone want to start a conversation.
📸 Your photos: what belongs, how many, and where Alexis and I disagree.
🤔 What should you do first, second, and third when you log on?
📈 That first burst of attention: why does it fade, and what can you do about it?
💡 When the conversations pile up, is it time to hide your profile?
Links I mentioned
Alexis’s links
Laurie’s links
Episode 12: Is AI Helping—or Hurting—Your Dating Life?
My free training: three secrets to finding and maintaining healthy love
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