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Divorce

October 5, 2026

5 Ways to Increase Your Chances of Finding Love After Divorce

After divorce, what could be shaping your chances of finding love before the next date even begins? Laurie Gerber raises questions about belief in love, self-care, telling people you are looking, dating rules, and where you look.

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Dating Apps

October 1, 2026

What Happened to the Dating Apps You Trusted? The 6 I'd Still Use

Dating apps have changed, and not always for the better. I look at what happened to the platforms you once trusted and name the six I would still use: eHarmony, Match, Facebook Dating, OurTime, SeniorMatch, and Stitch. I also flag the risks to watch for, including pricing,…

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Dating Profiles

September 14, 2026

She Changed 3 Things in Her Dating Profile: Matches Skyrocketed

Your profile can be full of good intentions and still disappear in the crowd. Laurie breaks down three practical changes you can make today, from choosing better photos to writing a bio that gives the right person a reason to lean in. You’ll also see why widening your search…

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Sex

August 27, 2026

Sex and Intimacy After 50: The Complete Guide

Desire doesn't die after 50. It changes. This candid guide covers menopause, libido, and the talks that make intimacy better.

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First Dates

August 14, 2026

First Dates After 50: The Complete Guide to Early Dating

If you're dating again after 50, first dates feel enormous. I want to give you every advantage I can. You're not doing this for practice.

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Love

July 24, 2026

She Left a 25-Year Marriage at 50 and Made Every Dating Mistake in the Book

In today’s Love at Any Age episode, I sit down with Silke Schwarzkopf, creator and host of Second Act TV, who left a 25-year marriage at 50 and made every classic midlife dating mistake there is. After 1 internal shift, she met Paul on Match.com, and they have been together for…

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Dating Apps

July 23, 2026

Are There Securely Attached People on Dating Apps? (And How Do You Find Them?)

Are there emotionally healthy people on dating apps? Fair question. Here is how you can spot securely attached partners and find them.

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Dating Profiles

July 14, 2026

Dating After 50: 8 Overused Dating Profile Clichés (And What They Really Say)

“No drama.” “I love to laugh.” “Just ask.” Sound familiar?

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Dating Profiles

July 2, 2026

Changed these 3 things in Dating Profile and Was Shocked by The Results!

I've seen one client change 3 things and get more quality conversations in a week. The problem isn't you, it's the packaging.

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Online Dating

June 18, 2026

The Complete Guide to Apps, Profiles, and Showing Up Like Yourself

Let me be honest: many women treat online dating like a chore, then feel demoralized. I want to help you show up as yourself.

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Getting Started

June 11, 2026

The Complete Guide to Finding Love Again After 50

You're over 50 and dating feels exhausting. I've helped hundreds of women at the edge of the dating pool. Here's your complete guide.

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Dating Mindset

June 4, 2026

Why Is a Man Over 50 Still Single?

My family's tale of Sylvia, who questioned every hat and every salesperson, says a lot about why some men stay single. Let's explore the mindset.

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Dating Mindset

June 4, 2026

All the Single Ladies: Hacks for Dating After 60

I recently joined Lori Dube and Constance Bauer on their wonderful podcast, We Ain’t Dead Yet, for an episode called All the Single Ladies: Hacks for Dating After 60.

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Trust

May 28, 2026

7 Things People Lie About in Dating Over 50 (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)

People lie in small, strategic, sometimes unconscious ways. I've seen it derail good matches on profiles, first dates, and beyond. The 7 lies.

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Dating Mindset

May 21, 2026

Dating Over 50: How to Actually Feel Good About It Again

Dating after 50 can feel like a strange new world, not a cute adventure. Here's how to feel good about it again, step by step.

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Compatibility

May 7, 2026

8 Things High-Caliber Mature Men Actually Want

I coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.

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Dating Challenges

May 7, 2026

From Bad Dates to Real Love: Laurie Gerber's Playbook

Hosts Dr. Nicole Martin and Dr. Tiffany Moon talk with Laurie Gerber on Scrubs to Stilettos about what keeps people single, why women settle into situationships, and how to shift your mindset toward the relationship you actually want.

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Divorce

April 30, 2026

Dating After Divorce: What Really Works Over 50

Worried your window for love closed after divorce? I talked with Lauren Handel Zander, who divorced at 52 and found her person. Here's her story.

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Dating Challenges

April 16, 2026

Where Are the Good Men?

I hear it every week: "Where are the good men?" If you think they're all taken or missing, let's talk about what's really happening.

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Dating Profiles

April 2, 2026

How (Not) To Use AI For Your Dating Profiles

A client's dating profile was clearly written by ChatGPT, and I had a small breakdown. Here's why AI can't replace the human part of dating.

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Online Dating

March 30, 2026

EP 31: Momentum vs. Trust, A Woman’s Perspective vs A Man’s Street Lessons (Part 2 of 2)

Laurie is a guest on the Midlife Dating Podcast with Paul Nelson, comparing a woman’s perspective with a man’s street lessons on momentum and trust in dating (Part 2 of 2).

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Emotional Availability

March 26, 2026

Are You Sending Mixed Signals? 7 Things Women Say They Want and What They Really Mean

Men say women send signals instead of asking directly. Often that is because you do not yet know what you actually want.

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Dating Mindset

March 19, 2026

Dating Over 50: Are Your Girlfriends Helping or Hurting?

Dating over 50 is brave. Tender. Hopeful. And yet—sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.

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Healing

March 12, 2026

Handling Rejection After 50 Without Losing Hope

Rejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.

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Dating Challenges

March 5, 2026

5 Dating Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make — And How to Stop Them Fast

If you are dating over 50, here is the good news. Dating can actually get better with age. Not easier. But better.

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Divorce

February 20, 2026

Learn the Trick to Casual Dating After Divorce

This episode is a special one. I’m sitting down with someone very close to me, my coach and mentor. Lauren Handel Zander is not only a dear friend, but she is the creator of the Handel Method, the personal development framework behind my dating coaching.

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Commitment

February 19, 2026

How to Tell if a Man is Ready for Long-Term Commitment

Online dating can feel like a waste of time. I've learned only some men are truly ready for commitment, and their behavior shows it.

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Getting Started

January 30, 2026

The 10-Step Guide for Getting Ready (When You’re Done Wasting Time)

If you’ve been thinking, “Maybe this is the year I actually date differently,” this one is for you. Season 2 of Love at Any Age opens with the foundation: how to prepare for dating so it feels purposeful, effective, and stretch goal: fun.

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Healing

January 15, 2026

The Secret Reason You're Not Ready for Love: How to Detox from Your Past Relationships

If dating feels like the same movie on repeat, it's not because you're bad at it. The real reason is quieter and much more solvable.

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Attachment Styles

January 8, 2026

The One Pattern That Subconsciously Wrecks Midlife Dating (and How to Stop It) 💥

If you keep dating the same men, it's not because you're bad at dating. Patterns run the show until you name them. Here's how to stop.

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Online Dating

January 2, 2026

Online Dating After 50: Make It Work for You

In today’s podcast, in honor of Dating Sunday — the biggest online dating day of the year — I make a case for dating online and attempt to debunk all your fears and skepticism.

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Getting Started

December 26, 2025

How Women Can Get Ready for Dating Sunday and Make Their Love Resolution Come True

If finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?

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Getting Started

December 18, 2025

Ready to date again after 50? Laurie Gerber shares 10 practical, soulful steps to prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love—starting now.

Dating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.

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Dating Mindset

December 11, 2025

Dating Over 50: 8 Unrealistic Expectations That Keep You Single — And How to Shift Them

If you’re dating over 50 and wondering why it feels harder than ever to find your person, you’re not imagining it. The dating landscape has changed — and so have we. You’ve lived, loved, raised kids, maybe divorced, maybe lost a partner. You’ve learned a lot about yourself. But…

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Dating Challenges

December 5, 2025

🚦5 Dating Mistakes You May Still Make (and Exactly How to Stop Making Them)

In this week’s episode of Love at Any Age, I’ll reveal the five most common mistakes women make that sabotage their dating experience—and how to fix them before they derail a great match.

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Dating Profiles

November 14, 2025

How to Answer eHarmony Prompts (Especially for Women Dating Over 50)

eHarmony's prompts can help you attract better matches, but only if you answer them well. Here's how to write yours with real intention.

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Dating Apps

November 6, 2025

4 Myths About the Dating Site Algorithm That Need Busting

Do the apps secretly rate your attractiveness? Are you being punished for swiping too much? And is there really a way to “beat the system”?

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Dating Apps

October 30, 2025

Dating Over 50? How Dating App Algorithms REALLY Work — 5 Hidden Truths You Need to Know!

Ever wonder how dating apps decide who you see, and who sees you? Dating Coach and Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber reveals how the real algorithms work behind Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and Match, and how to finally make them work for you.

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Dating Mindset

October 23, 2025

4 Bad Reasons 50+ Women Quit Dating (and 1 Good One)

Women quit dating for four understandable reasons, but they are the wrong ones. Here is the one good reason to pause, too.

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Dating Mindset

October 16, 2025

Get Better at Dating With "Main Character" Energy

If you’re a woman over 50 and haven’t done at least 7 of the 10 things I’ve listed below, you may be missing out on your “Main Character Era.”

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Dating Profiles

October 2, 2025

I Can’t Fix Your Dating Profile Without These 2 Things

Women send me profiles to judge, but I can't fix yours without two things. Your profile is an ad, and it can't be false advertising.

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Dating Challenges

September 18, 2025

What to Expect When Dating a Man Over 50

If you’re a woman in later years looking for a mature man around your own age, there are some things you should expect. This list isn't meant to scare you—it’s to help you experience the dating scene with greater ease. First off, they might help you feel less crazy, because if…

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First Dates

August 28, 2025

Why Your First Date Should Be a Video Chat

Met online? Skip the noisy bar. I say make your first date a video chat, before you spend real time and energy meeting in person.

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Dating Profiles

August 21, 2025

The Do's and Don'ts of Dating Site Prompts

Staring at that dating app prompt? As a love coach, I'll help you answer it with the right amount of info, green flags, and mystery.

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Communication

August 7, 2025

3 Do’s and Don’ts of Online Dating Banter

Good banter keeps the spark alive online. Use my do's and don'ts to move from messages to a video chat and then a real date.

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Confidence

July 31, 2025

Are You Undateable? 6 Things You May Not Realize

Ever Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.

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Trust

July 17, 2025

The New "Honesty Is The Best Policy" In Dating

Is Honesty the Best Policy in Dating? Now that you are dating over 50, you can finally be honest!

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Dating Apps

July 10, 2025

Top Advice for Dating App Fatigue When Every Swipe is a Soul-Suck

Dating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.

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Dating Profiles

July 3, 2025

The Worst Dating Profile Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make—And How to Fix Them

As a dating coach, I see women over 50 sabotaging their profiles with group photos, cliches, and negativity. Here is how to fix it.

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Divorce

June 26, 2025

Dating After Divorce: How to Do It the Right Way

Dating after divorce can feel like a strange new world. The rules are unclear, but you can find healthy love. Here is how to do it right.

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Emotional Availability

June 26, 2025

5 Tips to Avoid Being Ghosted Forever 🚫👻

Being ghosted hurts. I explain what ghosting is and share 5 tips to avoid it, so you can date with less confusion and more confidence.

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Online Dating

June 19, 2025

The Best Dating Sites Over 50? The Candid Truth (and Vital Insights) No One Gives You! 💔

The million dollar question, “What are the best dating sites for over 50?” A lot of advice out there is sugarcoated (and perhaps a bit biased), this isn’t one of those videos.

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Emotional Availability

June 19, 2025

Why Do Men Ghost: Some Important Coaching

Ghosted and reeling? Here is the coaching: stop falling for people whose words don't match their actions, and choose better.

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Dating Mindset

June 12, 2025

Top 5 Reasons To Believe In Love and Romance Again

Finding love again starts with belief. I share five reasons to believe romance is possible, even after heartbreak or a long break.

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Getting Started

June 12, 2025

The Best Way to Meet Men in Real Life (Even If You’re Nervous)

Tired of apps? I've helped many women meet good men in real life. I can teach you how to do it, even if you're really nervous.

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Dating Challenges

June 5, 2025

Should I Hire a Professional Matchmaker?

Curious what a professional matchmaker really does? I sat down with Jill Dunn to talk dating app burnout and long-term success.

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Dating Mindset

June 5, 2025

The Top 5 Reasons Women Give Up on Love

Quick question: What’s the top reason you’ve given up on finding love after 50?

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Online Dating

May 29, 2025

7 Best Dating Sites for Women Over 50 in 2026 (Reviewed by a Dating Coach)

The dating world has evolved. We’re swiping, chatting through mobile apps, and scanning dating profiles like pros. It can feel overwhelming at times—but here’s the good news: there are plenty of quality dating services out there filled with potential matches looking for…

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First Dates

May 22, 2025

10 Key Questions to Ask on the First 3 Dates for Mature Daters

The right questions early on matter more than chemistry. I'll share my Spark Questions to help you date with clarity and have more fun.

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Online Dating

May 22, 2025

Love at First Site: How to Choose the Best Dating Site Without Losing Your Mind

As a dating coach, I help women cut through the chaos of choosing a dating site or app when there are simply too many choices.

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Sex

May 17, 2025

Can Sex Get Better After Menopause?

If you're post-menopausal and dating, sex can get better. Let's talk about what changes and what pleasure can look like now.

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Dating Challenges

May 8, 2025

How Women Can Avoid the Top Five Dating Mistakes

After 20 years studying dating, I found the biggest mistakes women make can be avoided. Meet your 3H voters: Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha.

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Boundaries

May 1, 2025

The Biggest Dating Dealbreakers for Women

Staying too long with the wrong person often means you ignore dealbreakers. Here are warnings to watch for in early dating.

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First Dates

April 26, 2025

Biggest Mistakes That Ruin a Second Date

A couple of weeks ago we discussed the most common 1st date mistakes, if you missed it, here’s the link. This week, I want to warn you about the 2nd date pitfalls!

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First Dates

April 25, 2025

Fun First Date Ideas

Before a first date, chat enough to check your 3H criteria. Then pick a quiet coffee, wine, or walk and talk to see if chemistry is there.

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Compatibility

April 17, 2025

Understanding Relationship Compatibility in Early Dating

The biggest midlife dating mistake is staying with the wrong person out of loneliness. Learn to assess compatibility from the start.

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First Dates

April 3, 2025

Worst Date Ideas

Bad dates are the worst. Here are my tips from 20 years of coaching for your first three dates, so you can skip the crappy ones.

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Communication

April 3, 2025

Examples of Canned Responses for Dating Multiple People

I hear women overwhelmed by online dating all the time. Canned responses can make your messages charming, clear, and much easier.

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First Dates

March 27, 2025

First Date Signs He Likes You

So many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…

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Getting Started

March 27, 2025

Dating Over 50: How Do You Meet More People in Real Life? The Key Steps to Approaching Someone IRL!

How do you meet someone in real life? That’s the top question on the minds of thousands of singles dating over 50 who are tired of online dating. Dating and Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber, who was a resident “love expert” at some of the biggest dating sites, provides…

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Online Dating

March 13, 2025

Is Dating in Digital Times Even Worth It?

Exhausted by the apps and wondering if dating is worth it? Modern dating can work, just not the way you've been doing it.

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Getting Started

February 5, 2025

Love, Hormones, and a Fresh Start: Your Guide to Dating After 50

At our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.

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Red Flags

January 18, 2025

Top 12 Safety Tips for Dating (Including Online)

Scammers and bad intentions exist, but you do not have to live in fear. Here are 12 smart safety tips for dating online and in person.

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Online Dating

July 19, 2024

Navigating Modern Dating

Mom Essentials host Angie Weber talks with Laurie Gerber about the obstacles people face in modern dating, from starting over after divorce to navigating apps, intimacy, and the work of creating meaningful connection.

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Family

May 12, 2024

A Guide To Dating As A Single Mom: Happy Mother's Day

SINGLE MOMS: I’ll give you the bottom line first: A person who doesn’t think your kid(s) is a value add to life itself is not YOUR soulmate!

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Trust

May 6, 2024

Is Honesty Really The Best Policy in Dating and Relationship?

Project Loving Myself host Sanaiyah Gurnamal asks Laurie Gerber whether honesty is really the best policy in dating—and how telling the truth from the first date can filter for more meaningful, lasting connections.

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Dating Mindset

April 30, 2024

Date Like You Mean It: Dating Advice For 50+ Women with Laurie Gerber Ep 78: Too Young To Be Old

Modern dating can be confusing and exhausting but it doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode of Too Young To Be Old, Diane dives into the world of dating after 50 with Laurie Gerber, relationship coach and former resident love expert at Match.com. Laurie shares the message…

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Getting Started

April 20, 2024

Affordable Online Dating Courses: How One Love Expert Makes Her Coaching Accessible

Wondering if there's an age limit to love and intimacy? Navigating relationships after 50 can feel unfamiliar and challenging. Finding love and connection in later years, including identifying compatible partners and maintaining open communication, comes with challenges. It…

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Boundaries

December 17, 2023

Want To Establish An Ideal Relationship? Set These 4 Boundaries!

FAQ: What are boundaries I can implement in dating to establish my ideal relationship? ANSWER: These 4 things:

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First Dates

May 9, 2023

5 Tips For A Succesful First Date

Good news! Everyone is making the same dating mistakes and they are fixable! With these 5 tips!

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Dating Profiles

April 30, 2023

Top 5 Dos and Don’ts For Your Slam Dunk Dating Profile 🏀🧺

Everyone makes the same profile mistakes. Here are 5 dos and don'ts to make yours accurate, clear, and more likely to find your match.

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Online Dating

March 27, 2023

Dating Hack: 5 Things You'll Learn From A Video Chat That You Need to Know

There are 5 things THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW that you will learn by setting up a video chat with a potential date…

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Dating Apps

March 19, 2023

Attention Daters: How to Get off the Apps and Into Real Life Dates

Tired of endless texting and no real dates? Watch my talk with Alison Wellington, who gives exact texts to get off the apps.

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Commitment

February 5, 2023

How to Have the Conversation to Establish Monogamy in 4 Easy Steps 👣👣

Never assume you're monogamous just because you're dating. By Date #3, ask if you both want the same thing before you get attached.

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Attraction

May 8, 2022

Determining Your Type in 3 Easy Steps

It’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING! And I want you to reclaim it!

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