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After divorce, what could be shaping your chances of finding love before the next date even begins? Laurie Gerber raises questions about belief in love, self-care, telling people you are looking, dating rules, and where you look.
Watch nowDating apps have changed, and not always for the better. I look at what happened to the platforms you once trusted and name the six I would still use: eHarmony, Match, Facebook Dating, OurTime, SeniorMatch, and Stitch. I also flag the risks to watch for, including pricing,…
Watch nowYour profile can be full of good intentions and still disappear in the crowd. Laurie breaks down three practical changes you can make today, from choosing better photos to writing a bio that gives the right person a reason to lean in. You’ll also see why widening your search…
Watch nowDesire doesn't die after 50. It changes. This candid guide covers menopause, libido, and the talks that make intimacy better.
Watch nowIf you're dating again after 50, first dates feel enormous. I want to give you every advantage I can. You're not doing this for practice.
Watch nowIn today’s Love at Any Age episode, I sit down with Silke Schwarzkopf, creator and host of Second Act TV, who left a 25-year marriage at 50 and made every classic midlife dating mistake there is. After 1 internal shift, she met Paul on Match.com, and they have been together for…
Watch nowAre there emotionally healthy people on dating apps? Fair question. Here is how you can spot securely attached partners and find them.
Watch now“No drama.” “I love to laugh.” “Just ask.” Sound familiar?
Watch nowI've seen one client change 3 things and get more quality conversations in a week. The problem isn't you, it's the packaging.
Watch nowLet me be honest: many women treat online dating like a chore, then feel demoralized. I want to help you show up as yourself.
Watch nowYou're over 50 and dating feels exhausting. I've helped hundreds of women at the edge of the dating pool. Here's your complete guide.
Watch nowMy family's tale of Sylvia, who questioned every hat and every salesperson, says a lot about why some men stay single. Let's explore the mindset.
Watch nowI recently joined Lori Dube and Constance Bauer on their wonderful podcast, We Ain’t Dead Yet, for an episode called All the Single Ladies: Hacks for Dating After 60.
Watch nowPeople lie in small, strategic, sometimes unconscious ways. I've seen it derail good matches on profiles, first dates, and beyond. The 7 lies.
Watch nowDating after 50 can feel like a strange new world, not a cute adventure. Here's how to feel good about it again, step by step.
Watch nowI coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.
Watch nowHosts Dr. Nicole Martin and Dr. Tiffany Moon talk with Laurie Gerber on Scrubs to Stilettos about what keeps people single, why women settle into situationships, and how to shift your mindset toward the relationship you actually want.
Watch nowWorried your window for love closed after divorce? I talked with Lauren Handel Zander, who divorced at 52 and found her person. Here's her story.
Watch nowI hear it every week: "Where are the good men?" If you think they're all taken or missing, let's talk about what's really happening.
Watch nowA client's dating profile was clearly written by ChatGPT, and I had a small breakdown. Here's why AI can't replace the human part of dating.
Watch nowLaurie is a guest on the Midlife Dating Podcast with Paul Nelson, comparing a woman’s perspective with a man’s street lessons on momentum and trust in dating (Part 2 of 2).
Watch nowMen say women send signals instead of asking directly. Often that is because you do not yet know what you actually want.
Watch nowDating over 50 is brave. Tender. Hopeful. And yet—sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.
Watch nowRejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.
Watch nowIf you are dating over 50, here is the good news. Dating can actually get better with age. Not easier. But better.
Watch nowThis episode is a special one. I’m sitting down with someone very close to me, my coach and mentor. Lauren Handel Zander is not only a dear friend, but she is the creator of the Handel Method, the personal development framework behind my dating coaching.
Watch nowOnline dating can feel like a waste of time. I've learned only some men are truly ready for commitment, and their behavior shows it.
Watch nowIf you’ve been thinking, “Maybe this is the year I actually date differently,” this one is for you. Season 2 of Love at Any Age opens with the foundation: how to prepare for dating so it feels purposeful, effective, and stretch goal: fun.
Watch nowIf dating feels like the same movie on repeat, it's not because you're bad at it. The real reason is quieter and much more solvable.
Watch nowIf you keep dating the same men, it's not because you're bad at dating. Patterns run the show until you name them. Here's how to stop.
Watch nowIn today’s podcast, in honor of Dating Sunday — the biggest online dating day of the year — I make a case for dating online and attempt to debunk all your fears and skepticism.
Watch nowIf finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?
Watch nowDating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.
Watch nowIf you’re dating over 50 and wondering why it feels harder than ever to find your person, you’re not imagining it. The dating landscape has changed — and so have we. You’ve lived, loved, raised kids, maybe divorced, maybe lost a partner. You’ve learned a lot about yourself. But…
Watch nowIn this week’s episode of Love at Any Age, I’ll reveal the five most common mistakes women make that sabotage their dating experience—and how to fix them before they derail a great match.
Watch noweHarmony's prompts can help you attract better matches, but only if you answer them well. Here's how to write yours with real intention.
Watch nowDo the apps secretly rate your attractiveness? Are you being punished for swiping too much? And is there really a way to “beat the system”?
Watch nowEver wonder how dating apps decide who you see, and who sees you? Dating Coach and Relationship Expert Laurie Gerber reveals how the real algorithms work behind Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and Match, and how to finally make them work for you.
Watch nowWomen quit dating for four understandable reasons, but they are the wrong ones. Here is the one good reason to pause, too.
Watch nowIf you’re a woman over 50 and haven’t done at least 7 of the 10 things I’ve listed below, you may be missing out on your “Main Character Era.”
Watch nowWomen send me profiles to judge, but I can't fix yours without two things. Your profile is an ad, and it can't be false advertising.
Watch nowIf you’re a woman in later years looking for a mature man around your own age, there are some things you should expect. This list isn't meant to scare you—it’s to help you experience the dating scene with greater ease. First off, they might help you feel less crazy, because if…
Watch nowMet online? Skip the noisy bar. I say make your first date a video chat, before you spend real time and energy meeting in person.
Watch nowStaring at that dating app prompt? As a love coach, I'll help you answer it with the right amount of info, green flags, and mystery.
Watch nowGood banter keeps the spark alive online. Use my do's and don'ts to move from messages to a video chat and then a real date.
Watch nowEver Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.
Watch nowIs Honesty the Best Policy in Dating? Now that you are dating over 50, you can finally be honest!
Watch nowDating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.
Watch nowAs a dating coach, I see women over 50 sabotaging their profiles with group photos, cliches, and negativity. Here is how to fix it.
Watch nowDating after divorce can feel like a strange new world. The rules are unclear, but you can find healthy love. Here is how to do it right.
Watch nowBeing ghosted hurts. I explain what ghosting is and share 5 tips to avoid it, so you can date with less confusion and more confidence.
Watch nowThe million dollar question, “What are the best dating sites for over 50?” A lot of advice out there is sugarcoated (and perhaps a bit biased), this isn’t one of those videos.
Watch nowGhosted and reeling? Here is the coaching: stop falling for people whose words don't match their actions, and choose better.
Watch nowFinding love again starts with belief. I share five reasons to believe romance is possible, even after heartbreak or a long break.
Watch nowTired of apps? I've helped many women meet good men in real life. I can teach you how to do it, even if you're really nervous.
Watch nowCurious what a professional matchmaker really does? I sat down with Jill Dunn to talk dating app burnout and long-term success.
Watch nowQuick question: What’s the top reason you’ve given up on finding love after 50?
Watch nowThe dating world has evolved. We’re swiping, chatting through mobile apps, and scanning dating profiles like pros. It can feel overwhelming at times—but here’s the good news: there are plenty of quality dating services out there filled with potential matches looking for…
Watch nowThe right questions early on matter more than chemistry. I'll share my Spark Questions to help you date with clarity and have more fun.
Watch nowAs a dating coach, I help women cut through the chaos of choosing a dating site or app when there are simply too many choices.
Watch nowIf you're post-menopausal and dating, sex can get better. Let's talk about what changes and what pleasure can look like now.
Watch nowAfter 20 years studying dating, I found the biggest mistakes women make can be avoided. Meet your 3H voters: Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha.
Watch nowStaying too long with the wrong person often means you ignore dealbreakers. Here are warnings to watch for in early dating.
Watch nowA couple of weeks ago we discussed the most common 1st date mistakes, if you missed it, here’s the link. This week, I want to warn you about the 2nd date pitfalls!
Watch nowBefore a first date, chat enough to check your 3H criteria. Then pick a quiet coffee, wine, or walk and talk to see if chemistry is there.
Watch nowThe biggest midlife dating mistake is staying with the wrong person out of loneliness. Learn to assess compatibility from the start.
Watch nowBad dates are the worst. Here are my tips from 20 years of coaching for your first three dates, so you can skip the crappy ones.
Watch nowI hear women overwhelmed by online dating all the time. Canned responses can make your messages charming, clear, and much easier.
Watch nowSo many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…
Watch nowHow do you meet someone in real life? That’s the top question on the minds of thousands of singles dating over 50 who are tired of online dating. Dating and Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber, who was a resident “love expert” at some of the biggest dating sites, provides…
Watch nowExhausted by the apps and wondering if dating is worth it? Modern dating can work, just not the way you've been doing it.
Watch nowAt our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.
Watch nowScammers and bad intentions exist, but you do not have to live in fear. Here are 12 smart safety tips for dating online and in person.
Watch nowMom Essentials host Angie Weber talks with Laurie Gerber about the obstacles people face in modern dating, from starting over after divorce to navigating apps, intimacy, and the work of creating meaningful connection.
Watch nowSINGLE MOMS: I’ll give you the bottom line first: A person who doesn’t think your kid(s) is a value add to life itself is not YOUR soulmate!
Watch nowProject Loving Myself host Sanaiyah Gurnamal asks Laurie Gerber whether honesty is really the best policy in dating—and how telling the truth from the first date can filter for more meaningful, lasting connections.
Watch nowModern dating can be confusing and exhausting but it doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode of Too Young To Be Old, Diane dives into the world of dating after 50 with Laurie Gerber, relationship coach and former resident love expert at Match.com. Laurie shares the message…
Watch nowWondering if there's an age limit to love and intimacy? Navigating relationships after 50 can feel unfamiliar and challenging. Finding love and connection in later years, including identifying compatible partners and maintaining open communication, comes with challenges. It…
Watch nowFAQ: What are boundaries I can implement in dating to establish my ideal relationship? ANSWER: These 4 things:
Watch nowGood news! Everyone is making the same dating mistakes and they are fixable! With these 5 tips!
Watch nowEveryone makes the same profile mistakes. Here are 5 dos and don'ts to make yours accurate, clear, and more likely to find your match.
Watch nowThere are 5 things THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW that you will learn by setting up a video chat with a potential date…
Watch nowTired of endless texting and no real dates? Watch my talk with Alison Wellington, who gives exact texts to get off the apps.
Watch nowNever assume you're monogamous just because you're dating. By Date #3, ask if you both want the same thing before you get attached.
Watch nowIt’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING! And I want you to reclaim it!
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