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He's charming on the first date, then the conversation goes flat when you ask how he feels. Here's what makes a man feel safe enough to open up, and what shuts him down, drawing on Alison Armstrong's 35 years of studying men.
Watch nowWhen a man says he is ready but pulls away as things get real, the answer is rarely in his words. Laurie Gerber talks with dating coach Jonathon Aslay about the self-love deficit that can make emotional availability feel impossible. They explore the questions, patterns, and…
Watch nowI have coached daters for 20 years, and younger men keep seeking women over 50. You have the upper hand more than you think. Here are 5 reasons.
Watch nowAre there emotionally healthy people on dating apps? Fair question. Here is how you can spot securely attached partners and find them.
Watch nowLet me be honest: many women treat online dating like a chore, then feel demoralized. I want to help you show up as yourself.
Watch nowMy family's tale of Sylvia, who questioned every hat and every salesperson, says a lot about why some men stay single. Let's explore the mindset.
Watch nowPeople lie in small, strategic, sometimes unconscious ways. I've seen it derail good matches on profiles, first dates, and beyond. The 7 lies.
Watch nowI coach men too, and the cliches are wrong. High-caliber mature men want something more interesting. Here are 8 things they actually want.
Watch nowI'm not judging you if you followed the third-date rule. Here's why it can backfire, and what to weigh before sleeping with someone new.
Watch nowI hear it every week: "Where are the good men?" If you think they're all taken or missing, let's talk about what's really happening.
Watch nowYou felt the shift. You told yourself it was nothing. You texted more. "Why does this keep happening to me, and what am I missing?"
Watch nowHave you ever walked away from a few great dates thinking… “This is going somewhere”… and then it doesn’t?
Watch nowA client's dating profile was clearly written by ChatGPT, and I had a small breakdown. Here's why AI can't replace the human part of dating.
Watch nowMen say women send signals instead of asking directly. Often that is because you do not yet know what you actually want.
Watch nowHow long are you willing to ignore the signs?
Watch nowRejection hurts at any age. The work isn't avoiding it; it's moving through it without making it a verdict on your worth.
Watch nowHe might be texting. He might be charming. He might say he wants a relationship. And yet… something still feels off. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he emotionally available… or am I about to waste months (or years) figuring that out the hard way?” this episode is for you.
Watch nowThere is no single "the one" who got away. I explain why letting go of that story is what finally lets you move forward in love.
Watch nowOnline dating can feel like a waste of time. I've learned only some men are truly ready for commitment, and their behavior shows it.
Watch nowDating after 50? Chemistry isn't the only thing that matters. These 4 first-date questions help you spot a partner who fits your real life.
Watch nowYou do not need weeks of texting to know if he is right. I want you to have clarity by the third date. Here is my 3-date strategy.
Watch nowThe “friend zone” isn’t the same for men and women, and that misunderstanding keeps many women stuck in almost-relationships that never turn into commitment.
Watch nowIf you keep dating the same men, it's not because you're bad at dating. Patterns run the show until you name them. Here's how to stop.
Watch nowIf finding love tops your New Year's list, get ready. Dating Sunday, January 4, 2026, is the busiest dating day of the year. Are you ready?
Watch nowDating again after 50? Get intentional. These 10 steps help you prepare your head, heart, and hoo-ha for real love, starting now.
Watch nowI don't mean getting back with your ex, or staying with abuse. I mean giving a new man grace in early dating, before chemistry starts.
Watch nowIf you’re a woman in later years looking for a mature man around your own age, there are some things you should expect. This list isn't meant to scare you—it’s to help you experience the dating scene with greater ease. First off, they might help you feel less crazy, because if…
Watch nowEver Googled "Am I undateable?" If you're asking, you probably aren't. Reflective women are dateable, but there are 6 things to check.
Watch nowAs a relationship expert, my mission is to help you stop wasting time on dead-end dates and find someone who’s a good match for you for long-term love. By "good match," I mean you are "in sync" on all 3H's: your head, your heart, and your hoo-ha.
Watch nowDating app burnout isn't inevitable. I'll show you how to stay in the game and keep your sanity when every swipe feels like a soul-suck.
Watch nowDating after divorce can feel like a strange new world. The rules are unclear, but you can find healthy love. Here is how to do it right.
Watch nowBeing ghosted hurts. I explain what ghosting is and share 5 tips to avoid it, so you can date with less confusion and more confidence.
Watch nowGhosted and reeling? Here is the coaching: stop falling for people whose words don't match their actions, and choose better.
Watch nowCurious what a professional matchmaker really does? I sat down with Jill Dunn to talk dating app burnout and long-term success.
Watch nowStaying too long with the wrong person often means you ignore dealbreakers. Here are warnings to watch for in early dating.
Watch nowA couple of weeks ago we discussed the most common 1st date mistakes, if you missed it, here’s the link. This week, I want to warn you about the 2nd date pitfalls!
Watch nowBefore a first date, chat enough to check your 3H criteria. Then pick a quiet coffee, wine, or walk and talk to see if chemistry is there.
Watch nowFirst dates can be nerve-wracking, but most mistakes are avoidable. Here are the biggest first-date mistakes and how to steer clear.
Watch nowSome men are narcissists. Some men are full of themselves. Most men are neither.
Watch nowI hear women overwhelmed by online dating all the time. Canned responses can make your messages charming, clear, and much easier.
Watch nowSo many of my clients come to me upset and frustrated, because for sure they thought a gentleman was "into them"--only to find out he wasn't serious at all. How soon can you tell if a man likes you, if you can tell at all? Here I will inform you about some key early dating signs…
Watch nowAttraction isn't shallow. It's confidence, presence, and how you make others feel. Here are four practical ways to become more attractive.
Watch nowAt our age we’ve come to understand we don’t NEED a partner. You’ve spent plenty of time without one and you are okay.
Watch nowScammers and bad intentions exist, but you do not have to live in fear. Here are 12 smart safety tips for dating online and in person.
Watch nowI keep telling women it's not about whether YOU are good enough. Here's how daddy issues can sneak into your dating picks.
Watch nowThere are millions of unhappy single people in the world and I don’t want you to be one of them!
Watch nowDon't let first-date nerves turn you into someone you're not. Here are four tips to keep your charm and lose the spooky factor.
Watch nowDo you ever get so excited to finally find someone decent to date that you let your guard down and excuse or disregard RED FLAGS??
Watch nowRejection is part of dating, but it doesn't have to wreck you. Here are 3 tips to handle it like a pro and keep your heart open.
Watch nowThere are 5 things THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW that you will learn by setting up a video chat with a potential date…
Watch nowIt’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING! And I want you to reclaim it!
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