A few days ago I found myself saying something for the 3rd time in a week to a 50+ woman who was trying to get back into dating.

“It’s not about whether or not YOU are good enough.”

SINGLE MOMS: I’ll give you the bottom line first: A person who doesn’t think your kid(s) is a value add to life itself is not YOUR soulmate!

What happens if you are not OVER your divorce?

You need DIVORCE DETOXIFICATION!

Remember when I talked about “the click”?

It’s when you finally know you are ready to find your soulmate. You’ve stopped whining, resisting and fearing the process or the result.

My first answer is, dating is an honest job and you DO need to be willing to put in the work. Finding your soulmate does take time and a good attitude, like any other important accomplishment.

It’s not marriage…but, deciding to get committed is a big step!

You’re taking yourself off the market and that is a real risk.

So, make sure you’ve done your homework!

Follow these steps for success on Valentine’s Day.

1) Write down how you want to feel on Valentine’s Day.

2) Share what you wrote with your mate and ask them how they want to feel on Valentine’s Day..

It’s a new year and I hope lasting healthy love is on the top of your list of goals for the year!

If so, here is your checklist for preparation:

If you are looking for New Year’s resolutions for your love life, take this quiz!

Are you showing up the way you want to show up? If not, this quiz will give you some very good ideas for improvement.

Here is your end of the year exercise. I never miss doing it myself and it works every time!

Answer the following, in writing!

FAQ: What are boundaries I can implement in dating to establish my ideal relationship?

ANSWER: These 4 things:

Are you in the market for a gift for yourself or a loved one who is looking for love?

There could not be a better time than now to purchase a digital course as a gift.

I understand holidays can:

…remind you of loss

…remind you of loved ones who have passed

…make you feel lonely

…make you feel fat

…make you feel vulnerable to comparison

Are you headed into another holiday season without a "special someone" by your side? Wouldn’t it be easier to handle your family’s craziness if you had a partner with you? At the very least it might get them focused on something other than your singleness!

A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that their partner needs to be the same as them–similar interests, similar finances, family situation and maybe even the SAME in some areas like: level of education, race, politics, religion…

Sometimes you unintentionally cast a scary spell on your date and send your potential mate running.

Here are the tips to keep your first dates bewitching without the fright factor.

Do you ever get so excited to finally find someone decent to date that you let your guard down and excuse or disregard RED FLAGS??

So you're out there on the dating scene, and let's be honest, rejection is just part of the game.

But fear not y’all, here are the tips you need to handle rejection like a pro…

Why is Trust so important?

You might say developing trust is what dating is all about--to see if the person is a good match for you.

Do you ever end up dating someone longer than you should?

Do you watch your friends TRY to make it work only to entangle themselves with not-the-one for ages?