Obstacles To The Click

Remember when I talked about “the click”?

It’s when you finally know you are ready to find your soulmate. You’ve stopped whining, resisting and fearing the process or the result.

You’ve clicked into “go mode,” knowing you deserve a wonderful, caring, thoughtful partner by your side.

And you know you are going to find it! It may take a minute, but the journey will be worth it!

This might come at the end of some really deep therapy or coaching that helps you understand and forgive your parents for their terrible example.

It might come after some hard work to heal from abuse by someone you loved when you were little, older, or even recently.

It might come after admitting you’re not in control of your vice, and finally asking for and getting the help you need.

It might come after doing the introspection needed to own your part in why your last relationship failed (or all your relationships failed.)

It might come after telling the truth about what you experienced, crying it out, screaming loud and long into a pillow and finally feeling your pain thoroughly enough to release it.

It might come after forgiving yourself for what you’ve chosen in your past and really for once mothering yourself and telling yourself it is OK, you understand and you accept it all.

The good news and the bad news is that it is YOU holding you back from finding love.

And I want to help you. If you WANT help.

Do you want help? If so, just reply to this email and tell me what you think stands in the way of you having your “click?”

Love,