Plan Your Valentine's Day So it Doesn't Suck 💖😍🥰

Follow these steps for success on Valentine’s Day.
 

1) Write down how you want to feel on Valentine’s Day.
 

2) Share what you wrote with your mate and ask them how they want to feel on Valentine’s Day. If you have no mate, no worries, skip to Step 3!
 

3) Ask yourself: what obstacles could get in the way? What are you willing to do about them? Write down your answers.
 

4) (If applicable) Ask your mate: What obstacles could get in the way of how they want to feel? What are they willing to do about it?

5) Consider all the following and check off the ones you’re going to DO!

• Take Your Mate or Yourself Somewhere Significant in Your History

•  Write Yourself or Your Mate a Letter or Poetry

•  Go Somewhere You Have Never Been/Do Something You Have Never Done

•  Give a Sensual Massage

•  Cook or Bake Their/Your Favorite XYZ

•  Do a New Sexual Favor

•  Design a Surprise

•  Do That Thing You Know They Love (in Bed)

•  Buy a Special Treat or Gift

•  Make Artwork or Music Just for Them/Yourself

•  Flirty Texting

•  Choose Your Own Adventure
   

6) Pat yourself on the back for caring about LOVE so much that you’re taking the time to design it consciously! We are proud of you over here at the Love Hub! 🥰

 
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Frequently Asked Questions about Planning Valentine’s Day

What if I’m single on Valentine’s Day?

This is your chance to romance yourself! Take yourself out, write yourself a love letter, or do something that reminds you how lovable you already are. Loving yourself well sets the tone for all future relationships.

What if my partner isn’t into Valentine’s Day?

Try focusing on how you both want to feel, rather than what you “should” do. Keep it light and collaborative: “What would make this day feel special for you?” You may find common ground in a low-key but meaningful plan.

How do I avoid disappointment if things don’t go as planned?

The key is sharing expectations ahead of time and creating a backup plan. If obstacles come up, laugh, pivot, and remind yourself: you designed the day with intention—that alone is a win.

Can I still do something meaningful if we’re on a budget?

Absolutely. Romance isn’t about spending money—it’s about thoughtfulness. A handwritten note, homemade dinner, flirty texts, or a shared memory walk can be more romantic than a fancy restaurant.

How do I get my partner more involved in planning?

Invite them in without pressure. Share how you want to feel and ask them what would make the day feel fun or special for them. When it’s a co-creation instead of a demand, people are more likely to participate.

Love,