Top 5 Reasons To Believe In Love and Romance Again

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If you’re finding love after 50, the first step is simple but powerful: you must believe it’s possible. Belief is the foundation. Without it, even the best dating apps, the most compatible profiles, and the kindest potential partners will fall flat.

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Father’s Day Re-Imagined

I am writing to people with fathers or without fathers.

Imagine the father you wish you’d had. What’s he like? What traits does he have? How does he talk to you, think about you, behold you?…

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How to Stop Predictable Fights in Their Tracks 👣

Quick, without thinking hard, name the top three fights you always have with your partner.

My husband and I fight about money. I am more nervous and controlling, he is more trusting and generous. We fight when we’re hosting guests. Again, he thinks everything will turn out fine. I think he’s checked out, and I think worrying and controlling get the job done. Lastly, if I think we’re having sex, I’ll start a fight...

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5 Tips to Avoid Being Ghosted Forever 🚫👻

One of the main complaints I hear from daters is about BEING GHOSTED.

Ghosting is a pretty new term. I know because my 80-year old dad said “huh, what’s that?” He stopped dating before computers, texting and online dating sites. You could still ghost someone in those days– but nobody was talking about it.

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Popcorning: What it is, Why You Do it, And Why you Have to Stop

Popcorning: Interrupting your partner (popping in) to get attention on whatever you want to discuss. Distinguishing feature: it could happen at any time!

Couples have been complaining about “popcorning'' for years but it got WAY worse in the pandemic when we were all living on top of each other.

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These Excuses are Killing Your Relationship

Everyone makes excuses about their relationship. I know I did. My first round had to do with being better than most, then I blamed my partner and then finally resorted to believing I had tried everything.

There is nothing wrong with excuses except t

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My Favorite Dream Writing Exercises

I’ve been trying to impress upon you how important it is to assess your purpose, and your values, when it comes to your relationship. If you haven’t already done the compare and discuss exercise with your mate, DO IT! It’s a great start to creating a jointly held dream.

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