You should know this much if you've been following me for a while:

Your partner has to be satisfying the needs of your HEAD, HEART AND HOO-HA in order for you to be/stay happy in love..

I have been coaching people for 20 years on how to date effectively, based on Handel Group™’s awesome methodology. I've taught countless clients how to maximize the utility, intimacy, and fun of the first 3 dates, with great questions…

For every person I coach about dating I find a secret or two hiding in the closet! It’s something they think if others knew– it would mean no chance for them…

Love is the only game in town.

In this podcast you’ll hear how to play the game…

Do people get defensive when you give them negative feedback?

Here are 4 tips on how to position negative feedback so the person listening can really hear it!

What we think are going to be the predictors of success in relationships simply are not!

And now there is scientific proof…

Has anyone ever accused you of:

• being a bad listener

• being “checked out”

• interrupting

• not really getting them

• losing focus while they are speaking…

One of the main complaints I hear from daters is about BEING GHOSTED.

Ghosting is a pretty new term. I know because my 80-year old dad said “huh, what’s that?” He stopped dating before computers, texting and online dating sites. You could still ghost someone in those days– but nobody was talking about it.

Your partner has to be satisfying the needs of your HEAD, HEART AND HOO-HA in order for you to be/stay happy in love. (Psst, you have to be satisfying theirs too!)

A lot of you picked for the wrong reasons. Maybe the person satisfied one, or two, but not all three, and you thought you couldn’t have it all. But maybe you still can–with a little bit of work!

It’s easy to think that “your type” is some elusive thing, but it’s not: IT’S A SACRED THING!

And I want you to reclaim it!

Once you start using this incredibly useful dating tool, the 3H chart, you can say goodbye to heartbreak.

What, you may be asking, are the 3H’s?

A lot of you picked for the wrong reasons. Maybe the person satisfied one, or two, but not all three, and you thought you couldn’t have it all. But maybe you still can–with a little bit of work!

I’m going to try to keep this one brief. In order to be happy in dating, and in your long term love life, you need to be satisfying all 3 of your internal voters (your 3Hs)…

Sometimes your inability to get over someone reaches the level of an addiction, which means you feel like you have no control over what your head is busy thinking about.

How do you know you’re addicted?