What Do Older Women Think Men Want—and Are They Right?
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If you're a mature woman trying to make sense of modern dating, you’ve probably asked yourself: What do men actually want? Are they after “just sex,” younger women (only), a casual fling, a committed relationship, or none of the above?
Do older women actually know what men want—or are we making assumptions based on outdated ideas or our own insecurities?
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IT WAS ALL HIS FAULT.
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