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If you have been working hard at dating or even just on yourself, to change your past patterns and you haven’t found success, there may be a very important step you are overlooking.
I Finally Did it 💪🏼
On January 1st, 2021, I made a promise to myself, and on Wednesday, December 15th, 2021, I kept that promise–for the first time in my life.
I’m going to tell you all about it, as a way to talk about making your year end powerfully and meaningfully…
Avoid the Top 3 Relationship Pitfalls: Holiday Edition
No two people conceive of vacations the same way. No two people want the same thing from their holiday. Have you discussed what’s most important to your partner, in a calm moment?
If you haven’t, you can expect these 3 outcomes…
Are you a Good Lover?
This is NOT about your sexual technique, though we will be getting to that. This is about LOVE, as a verb.
The word love is so loaded. It’s impossible to know what someone means when they say it, because it has been co-opted to mean so many things.
Here is the most useful definition of love…
Whose Fault is It?
Last week I encouraged you to self-assess and cop to your REAL issues. Blaming your partner is just too easy!
Nonetheless, it is exactly what I did, FOR YEARS!
Yup, when my coach asked me why I was unhappy in my relationship then answer was simple:
IT WAS ALL HIS FAULT.
Here is what I told my coach were the issues…
My Relationship is On The Rocks: Is it Me?
It’s normal to ask yourself if the problems in your relationship are your fault. It’s also normal to blame them on your partner. The truth lies somewhere in between.
I’ve been coaching clients for 17 years including thousands of people trying to make love work well and I’ve taken away a very important learning…