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One of the biggest obstacles I see stopping women in midlife from finding a meaningful romantic relationship is a deeply rooted belief that they are somehow “not enough” to deserve it. That they're too old, too damaged, too late, too this or that.

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My Favorite Dream Writing Exercises

I’ve been trying to impress upon you how important it is to assess your purpose, and your values, when it comes to your relationship. If you haven’t already done the compare and discuss exercise with your mate, DO IT! It’s a great start to creating a jointly held dream.

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Are you a Good Lover?

This is NOT about your sexual technique, though we will be getting to that. This is about LOVE, as a verb.

The word love is so loaded. It’s impossible to know what someone means when they say it, because it has been co-opted to mean so many things.

Here is the most useful definition of love…

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