Not everyone can afford private coaching, but everyone deserves somebody to help them debunk their favorite excuses about why relationships don’t work.

Allow me to debunk the most popular 15 excuses I hear, by category….

I’ve been trying to impress upon you how important it is to assess your purpose, and your values, when it comes to your relationship. If you haven’t already done the compare and discuss exercise with your mate, DO IT! It’s a great start to creating a jointly held dream.

No two people conceive of vacations the same way. No two people want the same thing from their holiday. Have you discussed what’s most important to your partner, in a calm moment?

If you haven’t, you can expect these 3 outcomes…

This is NOT about your sexual technique, though we will be getting to that. This is about LOVE, as a verb.

The word love is so loaded. It’s impossible to know what someone means when they say it, because it has been co-opted to mean so many things.

Here is the most useful definition of love…