If you’ve ever slumped onto your couch after a dating app session feeling drained, disheartened, or downright numb, you’re not alone. Dating app fatigue is real, especially for women over 50 looking for a meaningful relationship.

What makes two people truly compatible? It’s not what you think…

Dating apps and dating sites can open up a world of possibilities, even after 50—but only if you know how to use them wisely. As a dating coach, I see the same worst dating profile mistakes over and over again, especially from attractive women who should be having a good time but instead find themselves endlessly swiping and sighing, “Where are all the quality men?”

Here’s the good news: Online dating success is absolutely possible. The only way to get there, though, is to stop sabotaging your own profile. It’s time to ditch the group photos, clichés, and negativity, and put your best foot forward.

So, you aren’t attracted at first, but you’re lonely, and you are looking for the love of your life!

And maybe you haven't made such good choices in the past when you picked based on what you were attracted to, so….