Master the Art of Love for Men Over 50 | Laurie Gerber
A Private Coaching Program for Men Over 50

Ten Men.
One Year.
A Real Relationship.

This is not a course you watch alone. It is a year of live weekly coaching with a cohort of serious men who are done accepting the status quo.

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10
Men per cohort
52
Weekly live calls
1
Coach. Laurie.
"Real change takes time, and so does dating. A 6-week course might give you some useful ideas. A year of weekly coaching with real accountability gives you results." Laurie Gerber
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Your Coach

Hello, I'm Laurie.

For more than two decades I have coached thousands of people through the hardest personal decisions of their lives. My specialty is relationships — not the Instagram version, but the real thing: partnerships built on clarity, honesty, and genuine attraction.

The program you are looking at is the most intensive work I do. It is not a course. It is a year of direct access to me, inside a group of men I have personally selected.

I limit every cohort to ten people because that is the number where every man can get real attention, real feedback, and real results. Not a seat in an audience. A place at the table.

20+ years coaching individuals and couples
Founder of a coaching methodology practiced internationally
Certified coach and professional trainer
Featured in major media on love, relationships, and personal growth
What You Are Buying

The Coaching Comes First.
Everything Else Serves It.

This program is built around one thing: a weekly hour with me and nine other men who are doing exactly what you are doing. That is where the work happens.

01

Weekly Live Coaching

One hour every week, live. Real situations, real feedback, real accountability. Not a recording. Not a replay. You, me, and the group.

02

A Cohort of Ten

You are not in a course with hundreds of strangers. You are in a group with nine men at the same stage, with the same goal, doing the same work. That dynamic is irreplaceable.

03

A Full Year of Support

Dating takes time. Change takes time. Fifty-two weeks gives you the runway to go from wherever you are now to a relationship that is actually worth having.

Between sessions, you will also have access to structured workbooks and reference material that give each coaching phase a clear framework. These resources exist to support the coaching, not replace it.

The Weekly Experience

What Actually Happens
on a Weekly Call

1

You Show Up as You Are

No performance required. You bring what is actually happening — a date that went sideways, a question you cannot get out of your head, something you are avoiding. The call meets you there.

2

You Get Real Coaching, Not Platitudes

I am not going to tell you what you want to hear. I am going to tell you what is actually true, and show you what to do about it. The group will too. Nine men who have no reason to flatter you is one of the most valuable things money can buy.

3

You Leave with a Next Action

The orientation of this program is always forward and practical. You will not spend an hour processing the past. You will leave every call with something specific to do before the next one.

4

You Come Back and Report

Accountability is not optional here — it is the mechanism. The group knows what you said you would do. That is what makes the difference between a year of talk and a year of actual change.

On the Time Commitment

Why This Takes a Year

Real change is not a weekend event

The patterns that have kept you from the relationship you want did not form overnight. A 6-week course gives you useful ideas. A year gives you a different life.

Dating requires runway

You need time to meet people, go on dates, process what happened, adjust, and try again. A year is not long — it is exactly the right amount of time.

Consistency is the secret

The men who find relationships in this program do so because they stayed consistent. The year-long structure is what makes that consistency possible.

The group compounds over time

By month six, the group knows each other. By month twelve, you are each other's most honest advisors. That depth cannot be manufactured in a short program.

Time commitment: one hour per week for the live coaching call, plus 1-2 hours using the workbooks and community between sessions. Most men find they spend about 2-3 hours a week total when actively dating and using the tools.

From the Program

"Before this program I thought I had a clear picture of what I wanted. What I didn't realize was how much I was getting in my own way. The weekly calls didn't just give me tools — they gave me a mirror. That's what changed everything."

Randy H.  ·  Program Graduate
Program Phases

The Year, Structured

A note on how this works: Each phase of coaching is supported by written workbooks and frameworks that give structure to what we're working through together. Think of them as preparation and reflection tools for the calls — not the program itself. The coaching is where the real work happens.
Phase 1
Foundation & Readiness
Getting clear on what you actually want, what has been getting in the way, and building the mindset to do this right.
Phase 2
Identity & Attraction
Understanding who you are now — at this stage of life — and how to show up in a way that attracts the right kind of woman.
Phase 3
Dating Strategy
How to meet people, how to use online dating effectively whether you're in a city or a small town, and how to move from conversation to real connection.
Phase 4
Deepening & Discernment
How to evaluate a relationship honestly, move it forward with intention, and recognize when something is right versus when you are just hoping it will get better.
Phase 5
Commitment & Partnership
Building a lasting relationship with clarity, communication, and real confidence — not performance.
Throughout
Weekly Live Coaching
Every week, every phase, the group call is where the real work happens. All of this is just the frame.
How to Join

Before You Pay Anything,
We Talk.

I am not trying to fill seats. I am building a cohort of men who are genuinely ready to do this work — because that is what makes it work for everyone in the room. The application is how we figure that out together. If I do not think the program is right for where you are, I will tell you before you pay, not after.

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Program investment: $11,500  ·  10 spots per cohort  ·  Applications reviewed personally by Laurie

Common Questions

Answered Honestly

Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching, which means we are focused on where you are going, not endlessly processing where you have been. You will do some honest reflection on your past because it is necessary to move forward well, but the orientation of this program is always forward and practical.
Do I have to share personal things in a group setting?
You control how much you share. What most men find is that being around other serious, mature men who are working on the same things is energizing, not uncomfortable. This is not a support group. It is an accountability group.
What if I live in a small town or rural area?
Everything is online, and the dating strategy we teach works whether you are in a major city or a small town — including how to use online dating effectively regardless of your location.
What if I'm not sure I'm ready?
That uncertainty is exactly why the first phase exists. Most men who join are not sure they are ready — they just know that what they have been doing is not working. Readiness is not a prerequisite. It is one of the first things we build.
What is the actual time commitment?
One hour per week for the live group coaching call, plus whatever time you put into the workbooks and community between sessions. Most men find they spend about 2-3 hours a week total when they are actively dating and using the tools.
Why does this cost what it costs?
Because you are not buying a course. You are buying 52 weeks of direct access to a senior coach in a group of ten, with genuine accountability built in. The small cohort is the entire point — it is what makes the coaching worth having.
What if I join and it's not the right fit?
Before anyone joins this program, we have a real conversation. The application process is not a formality. It is how I make sure this is the right program for you, and that you are the right fit for the group. If I do not think the program is right for where you are, I will tell you that before you pay, not after. What I cannot offer is a money-back guarantee on a year of live coaching. What I can offer is an honest conversation before you commit, so you are not making an $11,500 decision blind. Apply, talk to me, and decide from there.
Ready to Stop Leaving This to Chance?

Ten Spots.
One Conversation.
Your Move.

This is not a course you buy and watch alone. It is a coaching program you participate in — every week, for a year, with people who will hold you to it.

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